How to make your life better

• The most important thing to know is that happiness stays away from those who refuse to see the positive side of what they have and focus all their energy on what is negative in their lives, so start choosing one idea instead of another and know that your ability to replace negative thoughts with positive is directly proportional to your happiness.
• Decide which things to hold on to and which to let go: Holding on to things often makes us weak and letting go of them makes us strong. Does the thing that hurt you in the past really matter to you now? Definitely not. Likewise, what causes you pain in the present will not concern you in the future.
• Forgive anyway: let things happen as they are meant to be. When you hold on to anger towards something or someone, things will only get worse for you, and you are bound to that thing with a bond stronger than iron. Forgiveness is the only way to be free from your anger and pain, if even Forgiveness does not heal relationships. Some relationships are not meant to last, but forgive anyway.
• Do what you think is right: many things you may be able to do or it may be easy to achieve or someone imposes on you, but it is not worth your time or effort, trust yourself and work.

• Do all the good you can for the largest number of people. Every act stems from love and kindness, devoid of every interest or goal, and returns to its owner.
• Within your daily preoccupations, you often don't notice how great you are, but others around you see it. When someone says something nice to you, it's something that deserves to be remembered more than anything on your mind.
• It is good to hear people praise you and remember it, but it is not one of the basics of your self-esteem, and when someone does not praise you, praise yourself, you do not need people to evaluate you at every moment.
• “People pleasing is an unattainable goal.” You can’t please everyone and you don’t have to even try, so don’t care about the words of haters. Be happy and proud of yourself without the judgments that others make of you. Practice listening to compliments and constructive criticism and neglecting negative abuse.
• Find out what motivates you to become closer to your original self, remember that you will not be able to grow if you refuse to change and depart from inheritances.
• Success in life is for those who are passionate about what they are doing. Find the thing that makes you excited and focus on it.

• The difference between you and what you want is the excuse that you continue to give yourself, justifying your inability to achieve what you want. If you are good at making excuses, stop that in order to protect yourself from failure.
• Don't regret your past mistakes and don't stop making mistakes, they make you smarter. If you want to do the right thing, make many mistakes.
• Do not allow your fear of past events to affect the outcome of your future. Live your life with what today offers you, not what you lost yesterday. Forget what you lost and focus on what you learned.

• Every undesirable event (a person or situation) is only a gateway to your next true self, to a better and wiser version of you.
• You can't choose everyone you meet in your life, but you can choose who you want to spend your time with, so be grateful for those people who came into your life and made it better, and also be grateful for the freedom you have to walk away from people who don't.
• Relax, you yourself are enough, you have everything you need, you do whatever it takes, breathe deeply, and live now in the moment.