How to be a good speaker

People differ in their abilities and skills in dealing with others, and therefore others differ in the way to celebrate them or treat them and influence people and win their love and attract them easy. Conversational skills We often encounter people we fall in love with after the first meeting, as well as people with whom our conversation ends with hostility or discomfort and unwillingness to meet them again. First impressions are more important than we think and once identified, it is very difficult to modify them so let us avoid the fear of forming impressions First, in a negative way, by following these secrets:

• One of the most important tips that are given to us before an interview (a new person, a job interview...) is “be you” or “be yourself.” In fact, this advice is not good, we do not mean that you should be simulated or pretentious, but can you act in an innate way Or to be yourself during a job interview, or when you meet someone you haven't seen before?

If you are yourself, this means that it is possible to act in a mood or to sit as you sit in your house and not be in control of your words or your appearance, face it and act in a self-confident manner to become so, you will not be deceitful if you act better than you are It will make a good impression on you.

• Focus your attention on the points of similarity: we always tend towards people who are similar to them in most aspects (the way to choose some words, in interests, in studies, in social background...) focusing on similar aspects between you and your speaker makes the conversation more enjoyable and continuity and makes you more You have control over what you say to the other person.
• Stay away from flattery and offer compliments honestly: A sincere compliment is one of the most beloved things to the human heart, unlike a flattery compliment that highlights the ulterior motive behind flattery, make people feel good about you, use likable words and address your speaker by name, it is one of the most compliments the nice one.
• Be a good listener and think about what you can say after listening: let others talk about their interests and have fun with them because they will be very happy and comfortable when they talk about what they like and your skill lies in your constructive response and enthusiasm with the other person.

Your constructive response is in your sincere interest in what he says and your interaction with continued eye contact and smile and asking some questions about the topic he tells you about.

As for your negative response, it appears in a little verbal communication and shortening words without showing positive emotions

• Maintain the continuity of the conversation: Avoid independence and do not dominate the conversation, but share it and repeat the ideas presented

Do not be carried away in reviewing your history in front of your interlocutor, and if it is necessary to do so, mention your achievements to serve the conversation.