Pehea e hana ai me ke kane huhū a luhi

"Ke kaumaha nei au a make iaʻu." Ua ʻōlelo hou ʻia kēia mau ʻōlelo e nā wahine he nui, no ka mea, ʻaʻohe kuleana o ke kāne ma ka noho ʻana o ka ʻohana e like me ka makemake o ka wahine, akā, ʻo ke kāne ke ʻano o ke ʻano kaumaha loa e hāʻawi i ka maka i ka maka a puni. ʻO ka hale i kona komo ʻana, ʻoi aku ka mālie kaumaha ma luna o ka wahi a me nā kamaʻāina o ia wahi, no ka mea, ke lawe nei ke kāne i nā hiʻohiʻona o kona helehelena helu "111", e hōʻike ana i ka ʻāʻī ʻana o ka lae a me ke kosharyah.

Manaʻo kekahi poʻe ʻo kēia kekahi o nā koi o ka hanohano e pono ai i waena o nā lālā o ka ʻohana, no ka mea, i kekahi manawa, ʻo ia ke kumu hoʻoilina i hoʻoili ʻia ma waena o nā makua kāne a me nā keiki kāne, inā e maʻalahi ke kanaka me kona ʻohana a hoʻohauʻoli iā lākou, nalowale kona hanohano, a ʻO kēia ka manaʻo hewa akā ua laha, a i ʻole ʻo ia ke ʻano i loko o ke kanaka, akā ʻo ka pilikia, ʻo ka manaʻo o ka wahine ʻo ia wale nō me kēia kāne ʻaʻole i kaʻana like i kekahi manawa ʻoluʻolu me ia, a ʻike ʻole i loko. ʻO nā hana a me nā haʻahaʻa me ka ʻole o nā manawa leʻaleʻa ponoʻī me nā poʻe kokoke loa iā ia, a ʻo kēia ʻano kāne e pono ke akamai i ka hana ʻana.

No laila ke waiho nei mākou i kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻo ma ka lima o ka wahine i hiki iā ia ke hoʻoponopono i ke ʻano o kāna kāne, a hiki i ka moku o ke ola ke holo me ka liʻiliʻi o ka pilikia.

1- Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake i kou hale e noho malu a hāmau e like me kēia, a laila e hoʻokaʻawale iā ʻoe iho e lawe i ke kuleana o ka mea hoʻomaka i kēia mea, a e ʻoki ʻoe i nā kūlana ʻakaʻaka a wehe i nā kumuhana hoihoi me ia.

2- E mālama pono ʻoe a me kou ʻohana i nā hana maʻamau ʻole, a na ʻoe ke kuleana piha no ka hoʻomākaukau ʻana no ia mea, e like me ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i kahi pīniki ma ka hopena o ka pule ma nā wahi ʻoluʻolu, a me ka pāʻani pū me nā keiki. .

3- E mālama pono i nā leʻaleʻa maʻamau ma waena o ʻoukou, e like me ke kaha kiʻi ʻana a i ʻole nā ​​​​mea hoʻonaninani maʻalahi, a i ʻole e nānā ʻolua i ka TV a i ʻole kaʻana like i kāu mau keiki e nānā ana i kekahi mau kiʻi kiʻiʻoniʻoni, no ka laʻana, hauʻoli nā hana a nā keiki iā lākou iho, a inā paha kāu ʻAʻole komo ke kāne me ʻoe, ua hoʻomaha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho A no kāu mau keiki.

4- E hōʻoia ʻoe he pōʻai o nā hoaaloha e like me nā ʻohana, nā hoaaloha a i ʻole kekahi mau hoalauna pili, i hiki iā ʻoe ke hele i waho me lākou a kipa aku paha iā lākou a loaʻa ka leʻaleʻa mai ia mea, i ʻole e lilo nā ʻoliʻoli āpau i kāu kāne wale nō. , ka mea e hoʻohihia iā ʻoe i kekahi manawa a no laila e noho i loko o ka pōʻai o ke kaumaha.

5- E ho'āʻo e like me ka mea hiki ke loaʻa nā hoa aloha, ʻo ʻoe a me kāu kāne, nāna e hoʻonohonoho i nā kipa ʻohana like me lākou, ʻoiai i nā manawa āpau, e like me ia mau kipa e loli nui mai ka hana maʻamau a me ka monotony o ke ola a me nā kamaʻilio maʻamau.

6- Pono ʻoe i nā mea hoihoi a i ʻole nā ​​​​leʻaleʻa āu e hauʻoli ai i kāu hoʻomaʻamaʻa ʻana, no ka mea, ʻaʻole pono kēia mau mea iā ʻoe e kali i kekahi e hoʻohauʻoli iā ʻoe a hauʻoli paha iā ʻoe.

7- I ka hope, ina ua hoopihaia oe i na hana maalea, a o ke ano o kau kane ka mea nui, e helu oe i keia me ke Akua, Ae, o ka hana a ke kane i ka wahine, o ka hooluolu a me ka hooluolu ia ia.