No kou maikaʻi, aia kekahi poʻe e inaina iā ʻoe.. He aha ka mea huna o ka inaina o haʻi iā kākou?

He nīnau koʻikoʻi kā mākou e nīnau ai iā mākou iho ma muli o ko mākou pilina kūlohelohe, no ke aha e inaina mai ai kēia kanaka iaʻu? No ke aha ʻo ia e makemake ai e hoʻomāinoino iaʻu a ʻimi iā ia?
ʻAʻole ʻike mākou i kahi pane kūpono i kēia ʻano nīnau, no ka mea, ʻaʻole pili ia i kā mākou hana wale nō, akā pili i ka ʻano a me nā manaʻo ʻike o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe.
ʻO ka inaina kekahi o nā ʻano o nā manaʻo a me nā manaʻo e lanakila ai ka noʻonoʻo, a ʻike pinepine ʻia ma ke ʻano o nā hana ʻino a me nā huaʻōlelo a hiki ke hoʻonāukiuki i kekahi manawa, a ma nā mea ʻē aʻe ma ke ʻano o ka nānā ʻole, a i kekahi manawa kēia manaʻo. ʻAʻole hele pū me nā hana o waho, akā waiho ʻia i loko o ka inaina. Ma ka ʻepekema, ua ʻike ka poʻe ʻepekema aia kekahi mau wahi i loko o ka lolo ke kuleana no kēia mau manaʻo, a hoʻomaka lākou e ʻike ma laila ma mua o ka ʻike ʻana ma ke ʻano o nā hana a me nā hana.
ʻO ka noʻonoʻo, ʻo ia ka hopena o ka hana e pili ana i ko mākou mau manaʻo i loko o ke kanaka ʻē aʻe ma muli o nā manaʻo a mākou e hūnā e kōkua ai i ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka inaina, a ʻo kekahi o kēia mau manaʻo ʻo ka makaʻu. .
A inā mākou e ʻike ʻaʻole i hānau ʻia ka hapa nui o nā manaʻo kumu me ka manaʻo o ka mea i inaina ʻia, he manakia ʻo ia e hana ana i kāna hana, a i ʻole he kanaka hoʻoikaika a aloha paha me nā pilina he nui, a i ʻole he kanaka waiwai nona ke kaʻa. ʻO kekahi ʻaoʻao, e like me ka hoʻouka ʻana o ka mea inaina iā ia, ka ʻaihue iā ia, ka hoʻouna ʻana i kāna nūhou i kāna luna ma ka hana, a i ʻole ka hoʻoulu ʻana i ka poʻe a puni iā ​​​​ia e haʻalele iā ia.
Eia nā hōʻailona koʻikoʻi e hōʻike ana i ka inaina:

ʻAʻole ʻae i kāu mau manaʻo:

Inā ʻoe i loko o kekahi o nā kau, e nānā i ka nui o kona ʻae a ʻae ʻana i kou mau manaʻo. , pono e hoʻokaʻawale i waena o kona inaina a i ʻole ma ke ʻano he kanaka kūʻē i nā manaʻo a manaʻo ʻo ia he pololei mau i kona manaʻo.
manaʻo:

He nui ka poʻe e kaʻana like i ko lākou manaʻo no ka poʻe me ka poʻe kokoke iā lākou, nā hoaaloha, ʻohana, a i ʻole kekahi poʻe kamaʻāina a me nā hoahana, no laila ʻo ka ʻike ʻana i ka mea a ka mea inaina iā ʻoe e ʻōlelo ai e pili ana iā ʻoe me ka poʻe a puni ʻo ia e hāʻawi iā ʻoe i nā hōʻike paʻa i ka manaʻo o kēia kanaka iā ʻoe a i kāu. ka nānā ʻana iā lākou i ka lawe ʻana i kahi kūlana mua iā ʻoe me kou ʻike ʻole.
nā hana:

E nānā i ke ʻano o kēia kanaka me ʻoe, hāʻawi nā ʻano i ka manaʻo maopopo iā ʻoe e pili ana i ka manaʻo o ka poʻe iā ʻoe, no ka laʻana, ka nānā ʻole ʻana i ka pane iā ʻoe a i ʻole ka haʻalele ʻana i kahi kamaʻilio me ʻoe, he hōʻike kēia o ka inaina, a i ʻole ka nānā ʻana i ka ʻO ke ʻano o kāna kamaʻilio ʻana iā ʻoe a me ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana me ke ʻano o kāna kamaʻilio ʻana me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, a me nā minoʻaka anuanu a hoʻopunipuni a me ka launa pū ʻana me ʻoe i ka wā o ke kamaʻilio ʻana ua manaʻo ʻia he hōʻike inaina.
Ke kuhi hewa nei i kāu e ʻōlelo nei:

ʻO nā mea a pau āu e ʻōlelo ai, a me nā mea a pau āu e ʻōlelo ai, e loaʻa mau ana ka wehewehe maikaʻi ʻole, a ʻoi aku ia ma mua o ka mea e pono ai a lawe i ka ʻaoʻao ʻē aʻe mai kou manaʻo a ʻaʻole hoʻi i kū i kou manaʻo.
I kekahi manawa, huhū ka ʻano me ka loaʻa ʻole o ka manawa: ʻaʻole pono kēia kūlana i ka wehewehe ʻana, ʻōlelo paha ka inaina iā ʻoe ua inaina ʻo ia iā ʻoe. A i ʻole e hana ma ke ʻano maopopo, i hōʻike ʻia e ka neʻe ʻana o ka maka, a i ʻole nā ​​huaʻōlelo.
ʻAʻole ʻoluʻolu me ʻoe:

A pololei kēia hana i kona ʻano holoʻokoʻa, no laila pono ʻoe e nānā inā ʻoe hoʻokahi ma kahi wahi a nānā i kāna ʻano, ʻoluʻolu paha ʻo ia, a ʻoluʻolu paha ʻoe i kēia kau a ʻaʻole paha? Akā, pono ʻoe e hoʻokaʻawale ma waena o ke kanaka inaina a inaina iā ʻoe, a me kahi kanaka hilahila a hoʻopili ʻia e ke ʻano.
Nā kumu i hana ʻia:

Hiki paha iā ia ke haʻi nui aku i mua o ka poʻe ʻo ʻoe ka mea e inaina iā ia a ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike i ke kumu o kou inaina iā ia, ʻo ia ke kumu o kou inaina iā ia. a ma mua o ka hana ʻana mai iā ia, ua maopopo iā ʻoe, ua ʻike maopopo ʻo ia a me ʻoe ʻaʻole pono ʻo ia a ʻaʻohe kumu o kona mau manaʻo.
A o ka Faisal maanei, oia ka hookuikahi me oe iho, ina aole oe e hoolaulea ia oe iho, aole loa oe e launa pu me hai, a hiki ia oe ke inaina aku i kekahi me ke kumu maopopo ole, a o ka mea i nalowale, aole e haawi maopopo ia ia, aole oe aloha. iā ʻoe iho, pehea ʻoe e aloha ai i kekahi?

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ʻO Ryan Sheikh Mohammed