Malamulo asanu amtengo wapatali a kulera mwanzeru

Maphunziro ndi chinthu chododometsa kwambiri kwa makolo, ndipo chifukwa kulera ana ndi nkhani yovuta kwambiri, apa pali malamulo asanu ogwirizana ndi akatswiri a maphunziro ndi akatswiri a zamaganizo, kuti apeze maphunziro abwino ndi abwino.

Chinthu choyamba chimene inu, monga mayi kapena bambo, muyenera kudziwa ndi chakuti mwana wanu “si makina.” Mumamusuntha mmene mukufunira kudzera pa “kutalika” popanda kuganizira kuti iye ndi munthu ndi zosowa zake. ndi zilakolako, zimene angathe kupanga khomo amphamvu; Pofuna kukulitsa luso lake, yesetsani kudzidalira, komanso luso lopanga zisankho ndi kutenga udindo, ndipo izi zingatheke pokhapokha pokhulupirira kuti mwana wawo ali ndi gulu lomwe liyenera kulemekezedwa.

Chachiwiri, muyenera kufotokozera mwana wanu akalakwitsa kuti cholakwikacho chili pa cholakwa chomwe adachichita, osati mwa iye ngati munthu.

Chachitatu: Kambiranani ndi mwana wanu, m'pofunika kukambirana naye modekha. Mpaka mwanayo atafika kuti cholinga chokha cha zokambiranazi ndi chikondi cha makolo ake pa iye, ndipo palibe china.

Chachinayi; Kulemekezana, muyenera kuchepetsa kugwiritsa ntchito mawu odzudzula makamaka paunyamata.

Chachisanu, zitsanzo zabwino.Ngati mukufuna kusintha khalidwe la mwana wanu, muyenera kukonza kaye khalidwe lanu.Musaiwale kuti ndinu chitsanzo chake choyamba.