Kodi mumachita bwanji ndi munthu woputa?

Timanena za munthu kuti ndi wopsompsona pamene watikwiyitsa mosadziwika bwino komanso popanda mikangano kapena kusagwirizana, khalidwe lake kwa ife ndi lopsetsa mtima komanso lodetsa nkhawa, zomwe zimatisokoneza pakati pa zomwe sitingathe kumuyankha momveka bwino ndipo sanganyalanyaze kuputa kwake kwa ife, ndiye njira yabwino yothanirana ndi woputayo ndi yotani?

1- Munthu waukali amasangalala kuona mkwiyo m’maso mwako ndipo ali pamwamba pa kudekha kwake, choncho musasonyeze mkwiyo, koma sonyeza kuzizira kuposa iye.

2- Osayankha chilichonse mwa zomwe akunena, popeza ali wokonzeka kuyankha komanso mwankhanza kwambiri zomwe zingakukhudzeni nazo.

3- Dzitsutseni nokha ndikumutsutsa ndikutha kudziletsa.Izi ndizomwe zimakupangitsani kuti muwoneke kuti ndinu odzidalira nokha, zomwe zimamupangitsa kuti achepetse kukwiyitsa kwake.

4- Kupatula munthu wodzudzula ndiko kuyankha mwamphamvu kwambiri ku njira zake zokwiyitsa, ndipo kunyalanyaza kupezeka kwake mwanzeru ndi mwabwino, amakhala m'njira yokwiyira poyesa kudziwonetsa yekha, choncho zithetseratu.

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