Kodi mumamupangitsa bwanji wokondedwa wanu kuti azikukondani mopenga?

Funso lomwe limakhala m'malingaliro a wokonda aliyense, ngakhale timakonda bwanji winayo, kuopa kuti zakukhosi kwa mnzake kuzimiririka kumakhalabe kumatidetsa nkhawa, ndiye tingatani kuti nkhokwe ya yankho ikhale yoyaka pakati pa mitima, ndimotani? Kodi timapanga kuti yemwe timamukonda atikonde mwamisala, pali zinsinsi zisanu ndi chimodzi zomwe akatswiri azamisala apeza zomwe zingakhudze malingaliro osazindikira Kwa mwamuna, ndipo tsiku ndi tsiku osazindikira, chikondi chake pa iwe chimakula mpaka kukhudzika kwake kwa iwe kukafika poti za misala, ndiye zinsinsi izi ndi chiyani?

Tiyeni tiwadziwe limodzi.

Chinsinsi choyamba: Mvetserani kwa iye moona mtima ndi mawu ofunda achikondi, chifukwa mphamvu yakumva ya amuna ndi yamphamvu kuposa ya akazi, ndipo kambiranani naye moona mtima zomwe zimamukondweretsa ndi zomwe amasangalala nazo, ndiye kuti mutha kumusangalatsa ndi chikhalidwe chanu ndi kukhwima kwanu, ndikuchita. osavomerezana naye mpaka mutalankhula naye, ndipo mukatha kulankhula m’funseni kwakanthaŵi Mwachidule lingalirani maganizo ake.

Chinsinsi chachiwiri: Dzinyengerere, wokongola wanga, pamaso pake, kutsagana naye ngati kuti ndiwe m'modzi mwa abwenzi ake, ndipo mupangitseni kuti alankhule nanu pamutu uliwonse, ngakhale mutuwo ndi wa akazi okongola, ndipo khalani ofatsa. pamaso pake, mvetserani kwa iye ndi kumvetsera mosatopa kapena kunyong’onyeka, mokakamiza kulowa m’moyo wake ndi kumukakamiza kuti nayenso alowe m’moyo wanu.

Chinsinsi chachitatu: M’chitireni nsanje, mum’chititse nsanje ngati kamwana kakang’ono, m’chitireni ngati mwana wamantha ndi wamanyazi, ndipo pangani chifuwa chake kukhala chotetezereka chokhacho kuti muloŵe m’chifuwa chake monga mwana wamanyazi ali m’chifuwa cha amayi ake.

Chinsinsi chachinayi: Mufunseni zomwe angachite, osapempha zambiri kapena zodula, musadabwe ndi zosankha zomwe amadana nazo, monga kumusiya osadziŵa kapena popanda kufuna, kumupangitsa kumva ngati akulamulira. moyo wako ndipo samalamulira moyo wake.

Chinsinsi chachisanu: Kukongola kwanga, muuze mawu achikondi mwamanyazi, ndipo musamamuuze maso ndi maso, kumunong’oneza m’khutu, kapenanso kumupangitsa kuti atseke maso ake pomunena, valani zimene amakonda ndi kukongoletsa. popanda kupanga zodzoladzola zambiri, chifukwa amuna sakonda akazi omwe amaika zodzoladzola zambiri, Wongolani tsitsi lanu, lankhulani naye za kukoma kwa ubwana.

Chinsinsi chachisanu ndi chimodzi: Ngati mutakangana ndi kukangana, akhale amene wakufulumizitsani kukusangalatsani, ngakhale mutakhala wolakwa, pomulirira ndi liwu lako lokoma, ndipo adzakudzerani modzichepetsa.