Kodi ndinu otchuka bwanji?

Munthu aliyense ali ndi chikhumbo champhamvu chodzimva kukhala wofunika komanso chisonkhezero champhamvu chofuna kukondedwa ndi ena, popeza si chikhalidwe cha anthu onse, ndiye njira zopezera chikondi ndi chikondi cha anthu ndi chiyani?

1- Chilengedwe: Kukhala kutali ndi zopangapanga ndi imodzi mwa mfundo zofunika kwambiri kuti maubwenzi onse apambane.

2- Kuchita ndi malingaliro: Kudziyika ngati kuti muli m'malo mwa munthuyo m'mawu aliwonse kapena machitidwe omwe mumachita kumakupangitsani kukhala munthu wokoma mtima, zomwe zimasangalatsa anthu kukhalapo kwanu.

3- Osazengereza kuthandiza: Mukakhala munthu woyamba amene amabwera m'maganizo mwa aliyense amene akufunika thandizo kapena chithandizo chamtundu uliwonse, mudzakhala munthu woyamba m'mitima ya aliyense.

4- Ulemu: Tonse timakonda kumva kuti timayamikiridwa, choncho pangani munthu winayo kuti azikhala wofunika nthawi zonse, ndipo tiyeni tipatse ena zomwe timakonda kuti apatsidwe.

5- Kudzichepetsa: Khalani odzichepetsa momwe mungathere, chifukwa anthu amatalikirana ndi omwe amawaposa, ndipo pewani kulankhula za ubwino wanu, ubwino wanu ndi zomwe mwakwaniritsa, ndipo ena azindikire.

6- Kudziwa chikhalidwe cha anthu: Luntha podziwa chikhalidwe cha munthu aliyense kumakupangitsani kudziwa njira zothana naye komanso kudziwa zomwe amakonda.Ngati mukufuna kupambana chikondi cha anthu, muyenera kuwachitira zomwe amakonda.

7- Khalani osangalatsa: tonsefe timakonda kutipatsa mphamvu zabwino, zosangalatsa komanso kusinthasintha pochita zinthu zimapangitsa aliyense kukopeka ndi kukhalapo kwanu osazindikira.

8- Musaiwale lamulo ili, chifukwa ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zofunika kwambiri zomwe zimawonekera pochiza khalidwe lokondedwa, "Kuti mukhale wofunika, khalani ndi chidwi."