Ngakhale utakhala wabwino bwanji, pali amene amadana nawe.

Nthawi zambiri timakhala ndi funso lokakamiza lomwe timadzifunsa tokha chifukwa cha maubwenzi athu achilengedwe, chifukwa chiyani munthu uyu amadana nane? Chifukwa chiyani akundifunira chipongwe ndikumufunafuna?
Ndipo sitipeza yankho lomveka la funso ili, chifukwa silidalira zochita zathu zokha, koma zimagwirizana ndi khalidwe ndi maonekedwe a ena.
Chidani ndi chimodzi mwa mitundu ya malingaliro ndi malingaliro omwe amagonjetsa malingaliro, ndipo nthawi zambiri amawoneka ngati machitidwe amwano ndi mawu ndipo amatha kukhala okhudzidwa kwambiri nthawi zina, ndipo mwa ena amakhala ngati kunyalanyaza, ndipo nthawi zina kutengeka uku. sichimatsatira zochita zilizonse zakunja, koma imakwiriridwa mkati. Mwasayansi, asayansi apeza kuti pali madera muubongo amene amachititsa kuti munthu amve maganizo amenewa, ndipo amayamba kuonekera asanaoneke ngati zochita ndi zochita zawo.
Psychologically, ndi zotsatira za khalidwe lokhudzana ndi maganizo athu amkati kwa munthu wina chifukwa cha maganizo omwe timabisala omwe amathandiza kupanga chidani, ndipo chimodzi mwa malingalirowa ndi mantha. .
Ndipo ngati tiwona kuti malingaliro ambiri ofunikira sanabadwe ndi cholinga cha munthu wodedwa, ndiye woyang'anira yemwe amagwira ntchito yake, kapena wakhama kapena wokondedwa wokhala ndi maubwenzi ambiri, kapena munthu wolemera yemwe ali ndi galimoto. zipani zina, monga ngati munthu wodedwayo kumumenya, kumubera, kutumiza nkhani zake kwa bwana wake kuntchito, kapena kulimbikitsa anthu amene ali naye pafupi kuti amusiye.
Nazi zizindikiro zofunika kwambiri zomwe zimasonyeza chidani:

Osavomereza malingaliro anu:

Mukadakhala mu gawo limodzi, zindikirani momwe akuvomerezera ndikuvomereza malingaliro anu.Ngati nthawi zonse amakana ndikutsutsa popanda kulungamitsidwa komanso nthawi zonse, ndiye kuti ndi fanizo la malingaliro akukudani.Nazinso. , payenera kukhala kusiyana pakati pa kuti iye ndi wodana kapena kuti mwachibadwa ndi munthu amene amatsutsa malingaliro ake ndi kuganiza kuti iye ali wolondola nthaŵi zonse.
malingaliro:

Anthu ambiri amagawana zomwe amawona ndi anthu omwe ali pafupi nawo, abwenzi, abale, kapena anzawo ndi anzawo, kotero kudziwa zomwe munthu amene amadana nanu akunena za inu ndi omwe ali pafupi naye kukupatsani umboni wotsimikizika wa momwe munthuyu akumverani inu kapena anzanu. kuwapenyerera pakutenga malo oyamba pa inu popanda kudziwa kwanu.
zochita:

Zindikirani momwe munthuyu amachitira ndi inu, makhalidwewa amapereka chithunzithunzi chomveka kwa inu momwe anthu amakumverani, mwachitsanzo, kunyalanyaza yankho kwa inu kapena kukhala kutali ndi kutsegula kukambirana ndi inu, izi ndi umboni wa chidani, kapena kufufuza mozama. momwe amalankhulira ndi inu ndikufananiza ndi momwe amalankhulira ndi ena, kumwetulira kozizira kapena konyenga ndi kuyanjana Mosasunthika ndi inu panthawi ya zokambirana kumaonedwa kuti ndi umboni wa chidani.
Kutanthauzira molakwika zomwe mukunena:

Chilichonse chomwe munganene, komanso chilichonse chomwe mungatchule, nthawi zonse chimakhala ndi kutanthauzira kolakwika, ndipo chimanyamula zambiri kuposa momwe chiyenera kukhalira ndipo chimatsutsana ndi cholinga chanu kapena sichinadutse malingaliro anu.
Nthawi zina khalidweli limakhala lodana popanda chochitika: izi sizikusowa kufotokozera, wodanayo amakuuzani momveka bwino kuti amakudani. Kapena chitani momveka bwino, chowululidwa ndi kusuntha kwa nkhope, kapena mawu.
Sindikumva bwino ndi inu:

Ndipo mchitidwewu ndi wolondola kwathunthu, kotero muyenera kuyang'ana ngati muli nokha pamalo ndikuyang'ana khalidwe lake, kodi amamva bwino, ndipo kodi ndinu omasuka ndi gawoli kapena ayi? Koma muyenera kusiyanitsa pakati pa munthu amene amadana nanu ndi kudana nanu, ndi munthu wamanyazi komanso wochita zinthu mwachibadwidwe.
Zomveka:

Akhoza kunena zambiri pamaso pa anthu kuti inu ndi amene mumamuda ndipo sadziwa chifukwa chake mumamuda.Uku ndikudzilungamitsa yekha musanadzilungamitse pamaso panu chifukwa chakukudani. ndipo musanachite chilichonse kuchokera kwa iye zimamveka bwino kwa inu, iye ndi inu mukudziwa bwino kuti iye sali wolondola ndipo malingaliro ake alibe chifukwa chenicheni ndi chenicheni kuchokera kwa inu.
Ndipo Faisal apa ndikuyanjanitsidwa ndi iwe mwini, ngati sunayanjanitsidwe ndi iwe mwini, ndithudi sungayanjane ndi ena, ndipo ukhoza kudana ndi aliyense popanda zifukwa zomveka, ndipo chosowacho sichimpatsa ndithu. wekha, ndiye umakonda bwanji ena?

sinthani ndi

Psychology Consultant

Ryan Sheikh Mohammed