Nthawi zambiri, malangizo a m'banja ndi kukhalabe osangalala amaperekedwa kwa mkazi yekha basi.

• Osamuchitira chipongwe komanso osakumbutsa banja lake zoipa, chifukwa adzayiwala kuti moyo upitirire, koma sadzayiwala chipongwecho.
• Musamamukakamize za chikhalidwe chanu monga pulofesa wa zachuma kapena chemistry, ndipo sadziwa chilichonse chokhudza izi.Izi sizikutanthauza kuti ndi mbuli kapena osaphunzira.

• Muyenera kulinganiza chikondi chanu pa iye ndi chikondi chanu pa banja lanu, ndipo musalakwitse gawo limodzi la iwo, chifukwa iye samadana nawo, koma makamaka mumadana ndi kusiyana kwanu ndi iwo monga mlendo kwa iwo.Iwalani kuti nzodabwitsa. .Lingalirani kukhala chinthu chatsopano kubanja lanu.

• Musamupange kukhala wotsatira mlalang'amba wanu, ndi kapolo wosunga malamulo anu, m'malo mwake, mulimbikitseni kukhala ndi umunthu wake, malingaliro ake, ndi chosankha chake. Mulankhule naye pa zinthu zanu, ndipo ngati simukukonda lingaliro lake, likane mwaubwino.
• Musamuchitire nsanje mmodzi mwa akaziwo ngati nthabwala, pakuti ukumutsegulira njira kuti akunong’onezeni ndi kukukaikirani, ngakhale atakhala kuti sakukondweretsedwa chotani pamaso panu.
• Tamandani mkazi wanu pamene mukugwira ntchito yotamandika ndipo musamaganizire kuti zimene mukuchita m’nyumba mwanu ndi ntchito yachibadwa yosayenerera kuyamikiridwa, ndipo lekani kudzudzula ndi mwano ndipo musamuyerekeze ndi ena.

• Ndimamupangitsa mkazi wako kuona kuti ukhoza kumamusamalira mwachuma osamukalipira ngakhale atakhala wabwino bwanji, ngakhale atakhala wabwino chotani.
• Ngati mkazi wanu akudwala, musamusiye yekha, kulimbikitsana kwanu m’maganizo n’kofunika kwambiri kwa iye kuposa kuitana dokotala.

• Mkazi wanu si inu: ngakhale kufunikira kwa kuyanjana kwanzeru pakati pa inu ndi mkazi wanu, koma muyenera kuyamikira mfundo zosiyana zomwe ziri zosiyana kwa inu.
• Chimwemwe chanu cha m’banja sichingapitirire pokhapokha mutayambiranso kukonda mkazi wanu, chikondi ndi chimene chimapangitsa banja kukhala losangalala, koma n’chimene chimalimbikitsa makhalidwe onse abwino.

• Musakhale ngati amuna amene saona zomwe akazi awo ali nazo pa zabwino ndi zabwino zomwe akazi awo ali nazo ndipo osaziyang'ana koma ndi maso operewera ndi ochepetsetsa. chosiyana ndi chikhulupiriro ichi.
• Ukapanga chiganizo chokwatira mkazi uyenera kumuvomera kukhala mkazi wako, palibe kuthawira zimenezo mukadzalowa m’banja, ndipo mudzatuta kudana ndi masautso ndi kulephera kwake m’moyo.

• Umuna weniweni umatanthauza kukhala wanzeru m’zochita zonse, kuika zinthu m’njira yoyenera, ndi kutsogolera chombo cha moyo panjira ya chisungiko ndi chimwemwe.