Zinsinsi khumi kuti mukhale wamkazi komanso wokongola:

Kudzilimbitsa:

Kudzidalira ndi chikoka ndi zikhulupiliro ziwiri chifukwa kudzidalira kumawonekera m'malingaliro a ena ndikukupangani kukhala gwero la chilimbikitso kwa iwo.

khalani otsimikiza

Osayamba mawu anu ndi kudzudzula anthu kapena malo omwe muli, koma yang'anani kwambiri pa zinthu zomwe mumakonda komanso zomwe zimakuthandizani kugawana ndi omwe akuzungulirani.

Lankhulani motsitsa:

Zotsatira za kulankhula sizimabwera chifukwa cholankhula monyanyira kapena mokweza mawu, koma lankhulani momveka bwino komanso momveka bwino kwa aliyense amene alipo

Yang'anani pa chilankhulo cha thupi:

Maonekedwe a thupi lanu amaonetsa umunthu wanu ndi mmene mukumvera.Mwachitsanzo, munthu wakhalidwe lapamwamba nthaŵi zonse amayenda mokhazikika ndipo samadutsa m’manja polankhula, koma amadutsa manja ake polankhula, kugwirana chanza mwamphamvu ndi kuyang’ana munthuyo. kugwirana chanza ndi maso ake mwachindunji.

Sungani kumwetulira kwanu:

Mukakumana ndi munthu, kumwetulirani moona mtima, poganizira za kudziletsa.

Apangitseni anthu kudzimva kukhala apadera:

Mosasamala kanthu za munthu amene mukulankhula naye, mupangitseni kumva kuti ndiye yekhayo padziko lapansi, kuwonjezera apo, muyenera kukhala okonzeka kuyankhula za mutu uliwonse ndikukhala womvetsera wabwino kwa ena, ndikupangitsa ena kumva kufunikira kwawo. mawu ndipo musafowoke, kaya mutuwo ndi wotani

 Chitani chilungamo kwa ena:

Lankhulani moona mtima ndi anthu, kaya ndi mwana, munthu wokalamba, wachibale, kapena mlendo, sonyezani chidwi chanu m’mawu awo ndi moyo wawo popanda kuchita chidwi ndi chidwi, lankhulani zokonda zawo, luntha lawo, kapena maganizo awo pa zinthu zina. amadziwa kuti maganizo awo ndi ofunika kwa inu.

Atchuleni anthu ndi mayina:

N’zachibadwa kuti anthu amakonda kumva mayina awo, chifukwa zimenezi nthawi zonse zimakopa chidwi chawo kwa inu ndi zolankhula zanu.

khalani osangalatsa

Kuseka anthu popanda kuchita khama kapena mtengo kapena kunyodola ena Gawani kuseka ndi nthabwala zosangalatsa ndi onse omwe alipo.

Khalani ndi chikhalidwe:

Muyenera kukhala okonzeka kuyankhula za mitu yonse powerenga ndi kuwerenga, kudziwa mitu yosiyanasiyana monga zochitika zaposachedwa komanso nkhani zaposachedwa, komanso kukhala ndi zokonda zambiri, ngakhale pang'ono.