Mumazindikira bwanji kuti wina akugwiritsa ntchito psychological pa inu?

Muyenera kudziwa kuti munthu amene amachita kusintha maganizo pa nkhani ya kulankhula alidi katswiri pankhani zabodza, chifukwa nthawi zambiri amayesa kusintha zochitika ndi mfundo zapakamwa zomwe zimatsimikizira kuti alibe udindo pa nkhaniyo, makamaka amabisa kwambiri. mbali yofunika ya zinthu ndipo samalengeza mbali zonse M’malo mwake, iye amazibisa mwankhanza ndi kusonyeza zachiphamaso chabe, zimene zimamtheketsa kuumba zochitika zina zonse zogwirizanitsidwa nazo m’njira yomuyenerera.

Ngati mukumva kuti munthu amene ali patsogolo panu akuchita izi, yambani ndikufunsa mafunso ambiri, makamaka mafunso otsekedwa (yankho ndi inde kapena ayi).

Mwa mawu omwe onyenga amagwiritsa ntchito kukuuzani, mwachitsanzo: "Kukambirana ndi inu kwakhala kovuta", "Ndakhala wokhudzidwa kwambiri", "Osalemetsa" ndi ziganizo zina zachindunji komanso zamphamvu, monga momwe zilili mbali imodzi. Kukudzudzulani ndikutembenuzira magome mokomera chipani Wina, kumbali ina, amathetsa zokambirana zilizonse pakati panu ndikusokoneza zokambiranazo kuchokera panjira yake yoyambira, popeza mukhala cholinga cha zokambirana osati nkhani yomwe ili. ziyenera kukhala pakati panu.

Ngati munthu amene ali patsogolo panu akuuzani za izi, nthawi zambiri amagwiritsa ntchito chinyengo kuti abise kufooka kwake komanso kusowa kwa luso loyankhulana. kunyalanyazidwa.

"Ulibe kuchitira mwina, ndikupatsa nthawi yoganizira mpaka mawa, pambuyo pake sindingakuchitire kanthu." Njira yoperekera chiwongolero pamene ikukakamiza munthuyo kuti akhale ndi nthawi yochepa yoganiza kapena kupanga chisankho ndi chimodzi mwa zinthu zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito ndi oyendetsa maganizo pa zokambirana, makamaka pankhani ya malonda ndi malonda, monga kusewera. zingwe zamaganizo zidzapangitsa munthu kuvomereza nthawi zambiri popanda kulingalira Malingana ngati nthawi siimukomera, ndipo mwayi "mwachiwonekere" sudzabwerezedwa kapena kupitirira.

Ngati munthu amene ali patsogolo panu akuuzani za nkhaniyi, musamukhulupirire ngakhale pang'ono.Njira yochenjeza ndi chenjezo imakanidwa kotheratu m'makhalidwe olankhulana, ndipo samaganiziranso za chidwi chanu kapena phindu lanu. malinga ngati adakukakamizani ndi nthawi yochepa kuti mupange chisankho chanu pamutu wa zokambirana pakati panu. Ganizirani mosamala, yesani zinthu moyenera, ndipo samalani.

Kubwereza dzina mosalekeza ndi mokokomeza sikuli kanthu koma chinyengo chochokera ku icho chomwe chimagwiritsidwa ntchito mu "kuwongolera mwanzeru" nthawi zambiri pakudzudzula kapena kudzudzula ... chifukwa kutero kungathandize winayo kuti akope chidwi chanu ndikuchisunga m'njira yotsimikizira. kuti mumamvera zonse zomwe akunena kapena kukutsogolerani kuchokera kwa Mayi aliyense.

Kukusekani kapena kuseka zomwe mumanena kapena njira zina zoipa zomwe gulu lina limagwiritsa ntchito pokambirana ndi inu ndi imodzi mwa njira zofunika kwambiri zogwirira ntchito zomwe muyenera kusamala nazo, chifukwa chifukwa chachikulu chogwiritsira ntchito ndizo kukupangitsani kumva. kutsika ndikuchepetsa udindo wanu posinthana ndi kukweza udindo wake. Zomwe zimalemera mpira muzoyankhulana ndikupangitsa kukhala woyang'anira zokambirana.

Ngati muzindikira izi mwa munthu amene ali patsogolo panu, yesetsani kukhala ndi malire pakati panu, ndipo musamuwonetse mphamvu iliyonse pa zomwe ananena, chifukwa kulephera kwake kukwaniritsa zomwe ankafuna kudzera mwachipongwe kudzasokoneza, zomwe zingasinthe maganizo. mamba m'malo mwanu.

Njira imodzi imene anthu onyenga amagwiritsa ntchito ndiyo kukulolani kuti mulankhule choyamba.Kwa iwo mfundo imeneyi ndi yofunika kwambiri.Kumbali imodzi, idzawathandiza kukhala ndi nthawi yokwanira yokonzekera maganizo awo ndi zomwe anena, komanso mbali ina, poona zimene mukunena, iwo adzatha kupeza zofooka zanu ndi kuwadyera masuku pamutu pa inu.

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