Zizindikiro zotsimikizira kuzama kwake mu ubale wake ndi inu, mwamuna uyu adzakukwatirani

Nthawi zina timadutsa m'maubwenzi amalingaliro omwe samabweretsa ukwati uliwonse, ndipo ndizotheka kuti mmodzi wa maphwando akulowa mu ubalewu ndi cholinga cha zosangalatsa ndi zosangalatsa.

Pali zizindikiro zomwe zimasonyeza kuopsa kwa mwamuna mu ubale wake ndi mkazi, choncho samalani, mkazi, ngati mwamuna akwaniritsa zizindikiro izi, ali olandiridwa, ndipo ngati akufuna kusewera ndi malingaliro anu, ndiye ndi chitetezo chikwi.

1 - Chidwi, chidwi, chidwi

Zimadziwika kwa aliyense kuti chidwi ndi chizindikiro chofunikira kwambiri cha chikondi cha chipani kwa mnzakeyo, ndipo kwenikweni, chidwi ngati chizindikiro cha kusilira kapena chikondi sichimakhudza mnyamata yekhayo, komanso ndi cha mtsikanayo. kupezeka ndi kubwerera kwathu, mudzapeza kuti ali ndi chidwi kwambiri ndi inu, nthawi zonse kukuyang'anani kulikonse kumene akufunsani za inu, amasamala za inu ngati mutamuuza kuti pali vuto, zomwe mwapeza, iye akufuna. dziwa vuto ndi chiyani! M’malo mwake, amayesa kulithetsa mwa njira iriyonse kapena njira yothekera mwa kupereka uphungu mwa chikhulupiriro chofooka

2 - Amakupangani kukhala gawo la mapulani ake amtsogolo

Amakuikani m’makonzedwe ake amtsogolo, popeza mudzakhala oyamba kum’ganizira pamene mukulankhula za tsogolo lake.

3 - Moyo wake wonse uli mbali imodzi, ndipo inu nokha muli mbali inayo

Muli ndi malo apadera m'moyo wake, mosasamala kanthu kuti ali wotanganidwa bwanji, muli ndi gawo lanu.

4- Amadana ndi zomwe umadana nazo ndipo amakonda zomwe umakonda

Nthawi zonse amakufunsani zinthu zomwe mumakonda, ndipo amayesa kukutetezani mwanjira ina.

5- Amasamala za moyo wanu komanso tsogolo lanu

Mumamupeza ngati msilikali wolimba mtima amene amateteza dziko lakwawo, chifukwa amakutetezani ku chilichonse chimene chingakuvulazeni, komanso amakukondani nthawi zonse ndipo amafuna kuti muchite bwino.

6- Amakufunafuna paliponse pamene uli

Monga tanenera, nthawi zonse umamupeza akukuyang'anani, ndipo zilibe kanthu kuti mudzatani mukakhala limodzi, koma nthawi zonse amakhala ndi chidwi chocheza nanu ndipo amasangalala nazo, ndipo mukamacheza sakhala. kufuna kusokonezedwa ndi zinthu zina zomwe zingamusokoneze

7- Amakulengerani m’maso mwake kukhala kalirole

Kumene mungamupeze nthawi zonse akupeza zatsopano zomwe zimamupangitsa kukukondani kwambiri, amakukondani monga momwe mulili ndipo sakufuna kuti musinthe chilichonse, nthawi zonse amapeza mawu anu mosiyana ndi ena ndipo izi ndi zomwe zimamupangitsa kukopeka. kwa inu.

8- Amakufunsani zambiri ndipo amakufunsani zambiri za moyo wanu

Ndipo nthawi zonse dziwani kuti mwamuna amene amakukondani amayesetsa kuti adziwe zonse za inu, nthawi zonse amakufunsani za moyo wanu komanso za inu.

9 - Nsanje pa inu imatentha mtima wake

Monga ananenera kale, nsanje ndi chizindikiro cha chikondi, ndipo mwambi umenewu ndi woona ngati nsanje ili mkati mwa malire oyenerera!

10 - Amakukhudzani momwe mungathere

Ngati nthawi zonse amafuna kukugwirani mwanjira ina, ndithudi, amakukondani.Mwamuna amakonda kugwira bwenzi lake nthawi zonse ndikukhala pafupi naye momwe angathere, amafupikitsa mtunda pakati pa iwe ndi iye pokhala pafupi. kwa inu ndi kulankhula nanu m’mawu achifatse.

11 - Maso ake akuwala ndipo mano ake amayera, "amwetulire" akangolankhula nawe.

Ngati amakukondanidi, mudzam’peza akumwetulira nthaŵi zonse pamene mukulankhula, uwu ndi umboni wa kusirira kwake kwa inu, umunthu wanu ndi mawu anu.