Tinorera sei vana vedu kurerwa kwakakwana?

Zvinhu zvitatu zvinofanira kuuya pamwe chete kuti kurerwa kwevana vedu kuve kwakanaka: rudo, mienzaniso, uye kusimba.
Hatizotauri nezverudo, sezvo tese tichida vana vedu zvakanyanya zvekuti tinovada pane isu.
Hatingataure nezvemutevedzeri, ane imwe nguva.
Nhasi tichataura pamusoro pekusimba, kusimba mukurera vana vedu ... Takatsunga kuvarera here? Uye kana tisina kusimba, chii chichaguma kubva ipapo??
Zvakaitika, mukadzi wechidiki naamai vake, uye mamiriro ari nyore akaitika pakati pemukadzi wechidiki naamai vake izvo zvakandishamisa uye zvakandivhundutsa: nekuda kweizvo musikana wechidiki aifunga kuti kukanganisa mukufunga kwaamai vake, akatendeukira kwaari ndokumutuka. pamberi pangu… Hongu… Ndakamutuka, akatuka mai vake, ndakavatuka sezvinoita vana vomumugwagwa vanotukana.
Amai havana kutaura tsamba imwe chete yekupikisa, asi vakaedza kururamisa chimiro chavo chepakutanga uye vakapotsa vakumbira ruregerero nokuda kwemaonero avo asina kururama.
Chimiro chemwanasikana chakandirovesa nehana, asi chakanyanya kundirovesa nehana ichimiro chaamai vacho, avo vakanga vasina kuvhiringwa nekutuka kwemwanasikana wavo, sekuti vakanga vagara vakajaira kutukwa kubva kwaari...
Zvakare ndiri munzira kudzokera kumba, sezvandaifamba kudzokera kuti ndiwane nguva yokubvisa mirangariro yangu kubva muzviitiko zvezuva rangu refu, ndakafunga sezvizvi: Zvakauya sei kuti mwanasikana atuke mai vake kudaro? Zvakatanga rinhi?? Mukuyaruka?? Hazvigoneki, anofanira kunge ari kare ... pazera rechikoro ??? Kwete kwete… Chokwadi kare… Muhuduku hwepre-chikoro ??? Hongu ... Inofanira kunge yakatanga panguva iyoyo yepakutanga, uye ndakafungidzira sezvinotevera: musikana ane makore matatu anotsamwa uye anodanidzira kuti zvaanoda zviitike, amai vanomhanya kuti vamufadze.
Mwana anoda chimwe chinhu, asi mai haaiti sezvaanoda, kamusikana kanotuka mai vake pamberi pababa kana mhuri nemashoko ake ehumwana uye nemuromo wake werudo, saka munhu wese anoseka nyaya yacho ichipfuura...
Kasikana kari kurwara nekurwadziwa nechimwe chinhu ,tsono ine tsandanyama semuenzaniso.Anochema nekuridza mhere ari mumaoko aamai vake.Paanenge achichema amai vake vanomurova nekachibhakera kana kurova gumbo.Amai vanoramba vakateerera. mirairo yachiremba pasina kunzwa kana hanya kuti mwanasikana wake muduku ari kumurova nekumurova.

Kune nyaya dzakawanda dzekuti vana vemakore maviri nematatu vanorova baba naamai nezvibhakera kana vasina kuvateerera.Ini ndiri kuona kuberekwa kwekamwana kekudheerera, uye anorova baba vake kukiriniki anorova shamwari dzake. mukireshi, shamwari dzake dzokuchikoro uye vaaishanda navo kuyunivhesiti.
Kana mwana akasagamuchira mhinduro yakakodzera pakukanganisa kwake, anogadzira kurerwa kwakashata uye anoshanduka kuita munhu ane udyire uye ane hasha, uye dambudziko harisi rekuti anonangidzira hutsinye hwake kwauri, dambudziko chairo nderekuti anokura. nekutenda kuti munhu wese achatakura hunhu hwake hunotyisa sezvaunoshivirira, saka anoenda kunharaunda uye anopokana naye uye kune nhengo munharaunda dzisingaite. kuita basa renyu mukurera vana venyu... Asi sekuona kwenyu hunhu hwemurume wechidiki ane hasha ane makore makumi maviri neshanu hunoongororwa sei nenzanga??? Pamwe nokumuramba uye kumuzvidza, kana kuti “nokuputsa” simba rake nokumuparadza.
Nzira yekugadzirisa sei hunhu hwemusikana ane makore makumi maviri namashanu akakura achidheerera mhuri yake uye ave nhubu kumurume wake nemhuri yake??? Pamwe nekumudzora uye kupinda muhondo dzekumanikidza kutonga naye, kana zvakanyanya nekumusiya nekumusiya ari ega nehukasha hwake.
Shamwari dzangu ... Mhinduro ndeyokuti: kusimba.
Kurera kwako vana vako kunofanira kuva musanganiswa wakanaka worudo nokusimba, zvichireva kuti, somuenzaniso, kana mwana wako ane makore mana akakutuka pamusha kana kuti pamberi pavanhu, chiito chipi nechipi chaunotora kumuranga chinofanira kumiswa nokukurumidza uye. panguva yakafanira... Mwana anofanira kurangwa nokuchekererwa mukurerwa kwake, hapana munhu munyika anosiya minzwa nesora Zvinhu zvinokuvadza zvinomera zvakatenderedza zvirimwa zvake zvaanorera... Zvinofanira kudzurwa kuti chirimwa chikure zvakanaka uye utano...
Mwanasikana wako anopopota achikutuka iwe uri parunhare nambuya vake??? Chidzima foni nekukasika urange mwana wako,muranga.Kana uchimuda unofanira kumuranga.Mwana anofanira kuziva kuti sezvakaita mibayiro nemibayiro yemabasa ake akanaka,kune chirango chemabasa ake akaipa. .
Mwana anofanira kudzidza kudzora maitiro ake uye nzira yekusiyanisa pakati pechakanaka nechakaipa ... ndinogara pamakumbo aBaba ndovatsvoda kana vadzoka kubva kubasa ndovakumbira mutambo nekuti ndiri musikana akanaka uye ane hunhu ... chokwadi ... Ndinokavira Baba mumugwagwa uye ndovadhonza kubva mubhurugwa ravo uye ndichipopotera mudzidzi wemutambo ... Izvi zvakaipa Uye Baba vachandiranga nokuda kwazvo ... Uye kana zvirango zvadzokororwa, ndichava nePavlovian reflex: kuchema kwangu uye. ufeve = kurangwa, mufambiro wangu wakanaka uye kuteerera kwangu netsitsi = mubayiro, saka ndinofunga kane chiuru kane chiuru ndisati ndaita zvakaipa.

Paunongotanga nzira yedzidzo yakavakirwa pamusimboti: ruremekedzo = mubairo, kushaya tsika = chirango, kuchava nyore uye kwakapfava kurera vana vako nemhedzisiro inoyemurika kumwana kana akura. …..
Mumwe mukadzi akatishanyira makore anenge 20 apfuura, uye mwanakomana wake muduku akarara pasofa, uye paakada kubuda akatakura mwana, akamuka achinyunyuta uye achimupopotera nekutuka kukuru. amai vakamumbundira, vakamutsvoda nekumupuruzira: Asi, mudiwa wangu… Sorry, mweya wangu, tinoda kuenda kumba.
Can you imagine kuti mudhara uyu anomubata sei nhasi paanomumutsa kuti adzidze before his university exam??? Nenzira imwechete yakawedzera ne100 vakadaro.

Unoda mwana wako here? Iva akasimba naye uye umunzwire tsitsi uye netsika dzake upenyu husati hwamuranga zvisina tsitsi, murange nerudo upenyu husati hwamuranga zvakaomarara.