Iimpawu ezine ezibonisa ukuba uyakuqhatha

Ngenxa yokuba uthando luzingca kakhulu, kwaye ngenxa yokuba akukho mntu unikezela kumthetho wokuthatha inxaxheba, kwaye ngenxa yokuba ngamanye amaxesha siyathandabuza abantu abasondeleyo entliziyweni yethu, xa siziva utshintsho oluncinci okanye olukhulu, olubangela ukusebeza kwamathandabuzo kungene ebomini bethu, ngoko thina ulahleka phakathi kwamathandabuzo kunye nokuqiniseka, kwaye ngenxa yokuba le meko yelahleko yeyona imbi kakhulu, nawe awunjalo. Ngaba uyazi ukungcatshwa okanye ukungabi natyala, namhlanje siye sajonga kwindawo ebonisa iLipstick Investigation, ephanda ukungcatsha eOstreliya, etyhila wena 4 iimpawu eziqinisekisa kuwe ukuba eli qabane ngumngcatshi. Umongameli wale ndawo, uDavid King, uthe umyinge wamashumi asibhozo ekhulwini (80%) amatyala athe abonisana nesiza emva kokuqaphela ezi zinto zine.

Unyamekela inkangeleko yakhe ngaphezu kwesiqhelo

Xa indoda ikhululekile kunye nentombi yayo, imbonakalo iba yinto yesibini, kungekhona into ephambili. Uya kuba ngokuzenzekelayo nawe kwaye akayi kukukhathalela ukubonakala kwakhe njengezigaba zokuqala zobudlelwane. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ukukopela kuwe, uya kukunyamekela ukubonakala kwakhe ukutsala intombi yakhe entsha.

Uyayoyika ifowuni yakho

Uya kuziva ngathi uya elumka kakhulu ngefowuni yakhe, abe novalo xa umchukumisa kwaye uzama ukuhlenga yonke into ukuze ungafumani nto.

Uyakuqumbela ngento engekhoyo

Ulinda nayiphi na imeko ukuba ibangele ingxaki okanye ingxabano. Olu luhlobo lokuzikhusela. Uya kulahla ubutyala adibana nabo ngokungena engxakini nawe. Unokwenza ezi ngxaki phantsi kwesizathu sokuhlukana nawe kwaye ukuze afumane isizathu sokuziphindezela kuwe ngokungcatsha.

Ukukuphepha

Amaxesha akhe aya kuhambelana nawo. Usenokulirhoxisa idinga ngequbuliso, ngequbuliso alishiye idinga, okanye aphephe ukuhamba nawe. Jonga imihla yakhe kunye neeyure zokuhamba kunye nokungabikho.