Qala ubomi obutsha kunye nolonwabo ngezi ndlela

Qala ubomi obutsha kunye nolonwabo ngezi ndlela

1- Ukuziva unombulelo

Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuba ukuba nesigidi seerandi ebhankini kuya kubenza bonwabe ngakumbi, kodwa oko kuqinisekiswa luphando lwenzululwazi kuchasene noko. Kuyabonakala ukuba, imali inokuthenga ulonwabo, kodwa ingaphantsi kakhulu kunokuba abanye becinga.

Uphando lwezenzululwazi lukwabonisa ukuba abantu abakholelwa ukuba imali nobutyebi zilingana nolonwabo, ngokukodwa, ngabantu abangonwabanga kangako.

Ukuba sisityebi kungunobangela wokufumana ulonwabo, yaye enyanisweni, yimvakalelo yokuxabisa ukuba nemali enokunceda ubani onwabe.

Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba iimvakalelo zolonwabo ngaphandle kwemali zinokuphuhliswa ngokuqala ukuziqhelanisa nokubulela imihla ngemihla. Kuhle ukwazi ukuba umbulelo ngezona zinto zilula kunokuba lolona lwazi lunamandla kwisixhobo sakho sokuzinceda esikunika ingxelo elungileyo ngoko nangoko.

Uphononongo lwezeNzululwazi lubonisa ukuba ukuziqhelanisa nombulelo kukunceda uzive uneemvakalelo ezakhayo kwaye wonwabele amava amnandi. Kwakhona kuphucula impilo, kunceda ukujongana nobunzima kunye nokwakha ubudlelwane obuqinileyo.

2- Misela iinjongo zakho ebomini

Ukuze umntu athabathe inyathelo lokuqala yaye endaweni yokukhangela usukelo okanye usukelo ebomini bakhe, azichaze ngokwakhe aze asebenzele ukulufikelela, aze azuze kumava okulinga neempazamo.

Uphando lubonise ukuba ingqiqo yenjongo ibalulekile kwiimvakalelo zolonwabo kunye nokuphila kakuhle.

Kunjengokuba umbhali nesazi ngengqondo uGqr. Steven Stosny esithi: “Intsingiselo nenjongo zimalunga nentshukumisa: yintoni ekwenza uphume ebhedini kusasa. Intsingiselo kunye nenjongo yindlela yokuphila, kungekhona le nto uvakalelwa ngayo.

Ngelixa siqaphela indlela esivuya ngayo, intsingiselo kunye nenjongo inokubonwa kuphela ngokungabikho kwabo. “Akunakwenzeka ukuba wonwabe ixesha elide ukuba ubomi bakho abunanjongo nenjongo.” Kodwa endaweni yokulandela isicwangciso esikhulu, esinenjongo, imalunga nokufaka intsingiselo kuyo yonke into ayenzayo yonke imihla.Oku kulandelayo kunokwenziwa:

• Ukuhlala ukho ngakumbi ngalo lonke ixesha endaweni yokungxama ebomini.
• Ukuphila ngokweenqobo zethu ezisemgangathweni.
• Zinike ixesha lokuphonononga izinto esizithandayo.
• Ukomeleza ulwalamano lwethu nabanye.

3- Yiba nenyani malunga neemvakalelo zakho ezingalunganga

Xa umntu ezama ukonwaba ngalo lonke ixesha, uzama ukufikelela kwityhefu eyityhefu. Nokuba umntu wonwabe kangakanani na, ubomi buhlala bungumxube wokukhanya nesithunzi. Ngokwenene, imihla embi namaxesha anzima ayinakuphepheka.

Kodwa endaweni yokuphelisa iimvakalelo ezingalunganga okanye iingcinga, yindlela oqhubana ngayo nazo, ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:

• Yenza isithinteli malunga neengcinga ezingakhiyo.
• Phuhlisa ukuzazi ngakumbi kunye nokuqonda unobangela wokucinga okungalunganga.
• Sombulula iingxaki kwaye uthathe amanyathelo alandelayo.

4- Ukunyamekela umzimba

Akunakwenzeka ukuthetha ngezenzo zemihla ngemihla ezizisa uvuyo ngaphandle kokuthetha ngokunyamekela umzimba. Umzimba kunye namalungu awo kufuneka ukhathalelwe ukuze ufezekise iimvakalelo zolonwabo ngokusebenzisa:

• Ukutya okunempilo
• Umgangatho wokulala
• Ukwenza umthambo

5- Ukukhulisa ingqondo echwayitileyo

Ulonwabo ngokwenene ngumsebenzi wangaphakathi, ngoko ke oko umntu akuhlwayelayo, umntu uya kuvuna.Oko kukuthi, ukuba umntu ubeke ingqalelo ekwakheni ingqondo ephilileyo kunye neyonwabileyo, ekuhambeni kwexesha, uya kuba nolwazi ngakumbi ngamaxesha olonwabo.

Ukuba nengqondo ephilileyo akuthethi ukungahoyi iindawo ezimbi zobomi. Kodwa imalunga nokujongana nobomi bemihla ngemihla ngesimo sengqondo esinethemba, ngakumbi kuba olunye uphononongo lufumanise ukuba abantu abanethemba baphila ukuya kuthi ga kwi-15% ixesha elide.

6- Musa ukuthelekisa nabanye

Kukho intetho eqhelekileyo ethi uthelekiso lisela lovuyo. Ukhuphiswano oluncinci olusempilweni kunye namabhongo anokuba yinkuthazo enkulu kwabanye.

Kodwa ukusoloko uzithelekisa nabanye kusisiqalo sendlela yokuphila ebugxwayibeni bokuziphatha.

Ehlabathini elizele ngabantu abaphantse babe zibhiliyoni ezisi-8, kuya kuhlala kukho umntu okrelekrele, ophumelele ngakumbi, ojongeka ngcono, njl. Ukuzithelekisa rhoqo nabanye kubulala ukuzithemba yaye kuthintela inkqubela ebomini.” Ukongezelela, okukhona umntu encipha ukuzithelekisa nabanye, kokukhona uba nengqondo ephangaleleyo ngokweemvakalelo.

7- Ukomeleza ubudlelwane boluntu

Alithandabuzeki elokuba unxibelelwano lwentlalo lubenza bonwabe ngakumbi abantu. Yiyo loo nto abona bantu bonwabileyo besenza ubomi babo bemihla ngemihla malunga nabanye njengoko benjalo ngabo. Bahlakulela ulwalamano olomeleleyo nentsapho kunye nabahlobo. Banikela ngexesha kunye namandla kutyalo-mali ekuxhaseni nasekomelezeni ubudlelwane babo bezentlalo nosapho, usapho, abahlobo kunye nabalingane. Bakwanomdla wokubuyisela, ngokuziphatha okanye ngokwemali.

I-Altruism inika imvakalelo yokwaneliseka. Kukho ubungqina besayensi bokuba xa umntu enceda abanye, ngokwenene ikhuthaza utshintsho lomzimba kwingqondo yabo ehambelana nolonwabo

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