Ubugcisa bokuziphatha etiquette kumagama

Ngokubanzi, indlela yokuziphatha igxile ekuzihlonipheni, ekuhlonipheni abanye nasekuphatheni kakuhle nabo.Ibonisa indlela yokuziphatha nentlalontle, ubuchule kunye nobuchule bokujongana neemeko, kwaye ireferensi yayo yinkcubeko yoluntu engahlukanga kwilizwe elinye ukuya kwelinye. enye.
Kwakhona, ukuziphatha kakuhle esihlala sikulandela kuzisa iziphumo ezilungileyo kuyo nayiphi na imeko, ngakumbi kwinto ebizwa ngokuba bubugcisa bokuthetha….

1- Imeko yobudala:
Isithethi masithathele ingqalelo iminyaka yesithethi esihleli naso.Ukuba umntu mdala kunawe, kufuneka umnike ithuba lokuthetha kuqala ungamphazamisi.Kwakhona imixholo mayikhethwe ngokweminyaka yentetho. isithethi, kuba isigaba ngasinye sineempawu zaso.

2- ithoni yelizwi:
Kubaluleke kakhulu kwi-etiquette yobugcisa ukukhetha ithoni efanelekileyo yezwi ngelixa ugwema kangangoko kunokwenzeka isandi esikhulu ngenxa yokuba sinika impembelelo embi kumntu, ngakumbi ukuhleka ngokuvakalayo akwamkelekanga kubugcisa bokuziphatha.

3- Ukuthetha kwitafile yokutyela ngelixa usitya:
Ukungabandakanyeki kwiingxoxo ezibukhali, kodwa kunokuba uthethe ngezihloko ezinomdla, ngelixa ukuphepha ukuthetha ngelixa usitya, okanye ubuncinane ukubeka isandla emlonyeni ngelixa uthetha.

4- Ubugcisa bokuphulaphula:
Isithethi sifanele sibe nobuchule xa sithetha, kodwa kwakhona sifanele sibe ngumphulaphuli olungileyo size sinike omnye ithuba lokuvakalisa uluvo lwaso ngaphandle kokumphazamisa, kwanokuba akavumelani naso ngokwembono.
Esona sithethi sichubekileyo ngumphulaphuli olungileyo

5- Sukutsho kulowo wenze impazamo (uphosisile..) kodwa yithi: (Unokuba ulungile, kodwa ndiyacinga.) ...

6- Musa ukubhenela kubuchule:

Ukuthetha nokwenza kufuna umgudu kunye nogxininiso. Njengokusebenzisa amagama osandul’ ukuwafunda nonqwenela ukuwasebenzisa, okanye iintshukumo ezithile zomzimba, okanye ukusebenzisa amagama kwiilwimi ezahlukeneyo, njengokuthetha igama lesiNgesi, igama lesiArabhu, igama lesiFrentshi.
7- Kuphephe ukuthetha ngawe, ngezenzo zakho, impilo yakho okanye isigulo sakho.

8 Ukuba ingxubusho isekelwe kumbandela okude kulwazi okanye inkcubeko yakho, kukubonisa imbeko ukuwuphulaphula yaye kububulumko ukuzama ukuwunikela ingqalelo nokuwuqonda.
9 - Zithobe kwintetho yakho kwaye ucele imvume yokuthatha igama.
10- Musani ukusebeza endlebeni yamntu nihleli niliqela
11- Sukujongana nabathile abazimasayo apho ukrwaqula abanye
12- Musa ukuthi (yena) okanye (yena) malunga nomntu wesithathu okhoyo phakathi kwezithethi

13- Musa ukucengacenga, ungabi phakathi kwabacengi bobuxoki

14- Ziqhelanise nendumiso kunye nokubulela ngembeko eninzi kunye nokundiliseka.

 

 

Ihlelwe ngu

Psychology Consultant

URyan Sheikh Mohammed