Wenza njani xa eqala ukutshintsha ngakuwe?
I-1- Ungambonisi ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokutshintsha kwakhe, nokuba uyazibuza kakhulu ngezizathu, zenze ngathi awuhoyi.
Ukuba wamtshintsha nawe ngenjongo yokukukhathaza, musa ukufikelela usukelo lwakhe lokukubona uxhalabile, kodwa umoyise ngokuzenza umntu ongenalwazi.
2- Kuphephe ukuhlambalaza, kuba impendulo ayiyi kukwanelisa, unokufumana izizathu ezingayi kukukholisa, kodwa ziya kukulimaza ngokwasengqondweni.
3- Ungamceli ngqalelo okanye unyango lwakhe olwalukho ngaphambili, njengoko imfuno yenza buthathaka umdla wakhe.
4- Amadoda aqhele ukuhamba xa iingxaki zisanda kwaye adinga indawo yenkululeko, mnike esithuba abuyele kuwe ngokulangazelela.
5-Menze azive ukuba unenkathalo, kodwa hayi ngokugqithisileyo
I-6- Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba olu tshintsho luye lwaba yindlela yokungahoywa kunye nokukhalaza rhoqo malunga nezenzo zakho zonke, ke uhlale kude nayo kancinci kwaye uzolile.
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