Udibana njani nendoda enomona?

Amantombazana amaninzi afuna ukutshata nomntu onomona kunye nokulawula; Ngenxa yokuba imele amandla kunye nobudoda kuyo, kodwa ukuba intombazana inobuntu obuqinileyo, asiyicebisi ukuba yenze njalo. , ngoko siya kukunika iingcebiso eziza kukunceda ukujongana nendoda enomona.
Ungakulinge ubaxe xa uthetha ngomntu umenze akhwelete kuba nguwe wedwa oza kuzisola.

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Mazise kubahlobo bakho kwaye uzame ukuhamba naye ukuze azive
Ngokuzithemba nokhuseleko. Xa umcela ukuba abelane nabahlobo bakho ngohambo lwakho, uya kuziva ethuthuzelekile aze aqiniseke.

Imibuzo yendoda enomona isenokukuphambanisa, kodwa zama ukuba nomonde kwaye uzole kwaye uyiphendule kwaye ungabonakalisi naluphi na uxinezeleko kuba oku kuya kuphakamisa ukukrokra kunye nomona.

Kukho amadoda atshintsha intsapho nabahlobo; Nantsi ke isiza indima yakho ekucaciseni ukuba ubudlelwane bakho naye bohlukene nosapho kunye nezihlobo, njengoko bobabini benendawo yabo kuwe kwaye akukho mfuneko yokubabhida.

- Amanye amadoda alandela indlela yokubeka iliso lonke ixesha, nokuba kwiiwebhusayithi zokuncokola okanye ukukhangela kwifowuni kwaye mhlawumbi izinto zakho, kodwa khumbula ukuba kwisenzo sakhe ngasinye okokuqala, wamvumela ukuba enze oko, ngoko musa. Unako ukumbuza ukuba kukho into elahlekileyo okanye efuna okuthile, Landela naye incoko ezolileyo ephawulwa kukuqondana nokuphulaphula.

Zibekele imida ngenxa yomona.Umyeni wakho usenokukhetha ukukugcina ekhejini aze akuthintele ukuba ungenzi naluphi na uhlobo lokuzonwabisa.Kungcono ukumbuza imibuzo ethile: Ngaba wakha wakuqhatha? Ngaba wakha wayenza into eyakwenza waziva uphoxekile? Oku kumnceda abone izinto ngokwenyani nangendlela ezicace ngakumbi aze aphinde akuthembe. Kodwa qiniseka ukuba ingxoxo yakho ayithathi jiko lobundlobongela. Kodwa ukuba unobangela womona kukungazithembi, mbonise ukuba uhlala naye kuba umthanda. Oku kuya kukunceda ukuphelisa ukuziphatha kwakhe okucaphukisayo.

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URyan Sheikh Mohammed