Uqhubana njani nomyeni odlamkileyo nonochuku?

Apha udlala indima yomfazi Ukuze umfazi abe ngumfazi olungileyo nonesidima, oku akuyondlwan’ iyanetha, ngakumbi ukuba indoda inzima ukuyiphatha yaye inomsindo ukusa kumlinganiselo ekunzima ukujamelana nawo, kunye nomfazi. Kufuneka ucinge ngononophelo malunga nendlela yokulawula kunye nokuqulatha umyeni kunye nomoya wakhe.Ngamanye amaxesha ukwimo elungileyo kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ukwimo enzima, kwaye yile nto eyenza ukujongana nayo kube nzima; Ngenxa yokuba akunakwenzeka ukuxela kwangaphambili indlela aza kusabela ngayo, kuyimfuneko ukuqonda isimo sengqondo sobuntu bakhe.” Nanga amanye amacebiso okuqhubana nomyeni one-moody:

Uyenza njani indoda yakho ibe lula kwaye ibe bhetyebhetye ekujonganeni nawe?

XNUMX- Ukushiya indawo yokuba indoda yenze izinto zodwa, njengoko isenokubonakala ngathi iyavuya xa umfazi eyikhethela impahla, okanye xa eyilungiselela ukutya, kodwa ukuba iphathiswe umsebenzi wokuzikhethela ngamanye amaxesha, oku kuya kwenza ukuba indoda ikwazi ukwenza izinto zodwa. uziva ekhululekile kwaye ekhululekile.

XNUMX- Bonisa umdla kuye yedwa, xa umfazi esenza izinto ezithandwa ngumyeni, njengokufunda kunye, nokunyamekela imisebenzi athanda ukuyenza, oku kuya kuzisa ulonwabo novuyo endodeni.

XNUMX- Ukunika inkxaso endodeni.Ukholo lomfazi kunye nenkxaso kumyeni wakhe lwenza umyeni abe kwimeko entle nepholileyo.

-XNUMX - Ukwazi into ayifunayo, njengoko ukwazi ukuba umyeni ufuna ntoni kumenza abe nomoya omkhulu, nje umfazi ozama ukufumanisa kwaye abonise kuye into enhle.

I-XNUMX- Ukuthatha uluvo lwakhe, xa umfazi ebuza umyeni wakhe malunga nombono wakhe ngokuthe ngqo, oku kumenza abe nolonwabo ngakumbi kwaye ezolile, okuya kumnceda ukuba aphucule isimo sakhe sengqondo.

XNUMX- Ukuxoxa kunye nokubonisana nomyeni kwezinye izinto, kwaye ukuphepha ukungqubuzana kunye nenkani kunokukhokelela ekufikeleleni kwisivumelwano esenza ubomi bube mnandi kwaye bonwabe, njengoko ukugxininisa kwimbono kunye nokungathathi hlangothi kuyo kwenza umyeni abe nenkani.