Ngaba ulilitye, iphepha okanye isikere?

Umdlalo odumileyo we-paper-scissors ebesisoloko siwudlala ebuntwaneni bethu, kwaye ngumdlalo wezandla phakathi kwabantu ababini, mhlawumbi ngokwelungiselelo elahlukileyo, ubalwe ukuya kutsho kwisithathu, kwaye bobabini bavakalisa ukhetho lwabo, oluyinyani. nokuba “liphepha” okanye “ilitye” okanye “isikere” esinomfanekiso walo.
Luluphi ukhetho lwakho?

Khetha enye yezi ndlela zintathu kwaye ujonge uhlalutyo lomlinganiswa oluhambelana nokukhetha kwakho:

ukwalela:

Unobuntu obunamandla kwaye obukhuthazayo, akukho nto inokuma endleleni yokufezekisa iinjongo zakho. Eli nqaku lihle kubuntu bakho maxa wambi lisenokukuchanaba kwiingxaki, ingakumbi ekubeni ukulungele ukuncama nantoni na efunekayo ukuze ufikelele oko ufuna ukukuphumeza. Unengqiqo kakhulu, njengoko uhlala ukhetha oko ingqondo yakho ikuyalela yona, nokuba kunzima kwaye kukubangela usizi. Abanye bakutyhola ngokuba ungumntu ongakhathaliyo nozingcayo, kodwa ekugqibeleni awukhathali nokuba abanye bacinga ntoni na!
iphepha:

Ungumntu onobubele kwaye onothando, uhlala ejonge ukunceda abanye kwaye ubangqonge ngobubele bakho. Ungalibazisi ukubonelela abanye ngeenkonzo, nokuba oko kukuchitha ixesha kunye nomdla wobuqu. Ufumana ulonwabo ekuchitheni ixesha kunye nabo basondeleyo kuwe, ke musa ukwamkela isithukuthezi kwaye uhlale ujonge ukuphuhlisa ubudlelwane bakho nabahlobo bakho. Kwelinye icala, ububele bakho bukubeka esichengeni kwiingxaki ezithile, ngakumbi ukuba udibana nabantu abaxhaphazayo okanye abanenkohliso endleleni yakho.
ipere yesikere:

Ungumntu okrelekrele kwaye ozithembileyo. Unyanisekile ngokugqithisileyo, nokuba ukunyaniseka kwakho kunokubakhathaza kwaye kubadanise abanye. Oku kusenokubonakalisa kakubi kuwe, njengoko ulahlekelwa ngabanye babo basondeleyo kuwe, kodwa ngokubuyisela, uba ngumthombo wentembelo kubahlobo bakho ukuba bayayiqonda indlela yakho yokucinga. Izigwebo zakho ziqinile, kuba akunantandabuzo, njengokuba ulilungisa, ukuthiyile okungendawo.