Iimpawu ezi-6 eziqinisekisa ukuba unobuntu obubi kunye nendlela yokulahla le ngxaki

Ulawula izinto ngaphambi kokuba zenzeke

Umzekelo, usenokuba ekuqaleni kobudlelwane obutsha nomhlobo okanye isithandwa kwaye uqale ngokuthi, “Olu lwalamano alunakuze luhlale luhleli.” Le mbonakalo ibulalayo ivala ithuba lokufikelela kwisiphumo esivuyisayo ngaphambi kokuba kuvele ithuba. Ingxaki ngalo mbono kukuba ihlutha ulonwabo kumaxesha amaninzi ebomini bakho kwaye ixhasa umbono ongalunganga.

Ukuphila ngeenkumbulo ezibuhlungu

Izinto ezimbi zisenokwenzeka ebomini bakho, kwaye ekuphela kwento oyifunayo kula mava kukufunda kuwo ukuze ungaziphindi kwixesha elizayo. Kodwa rhoqo ukukhalimela ukungaphumeleli kwixesha elidlulileyo ngaphandle kokuxhomekeka kubulumko kunye nokutsiba eli nqanaba kukwenza uvaleleke kwisangqa sexesha elidlulileyo kwaye ngaloo ndlela uphinda iimpazamo ezifanayo.

Uzenza umgwebi wabanye

Abantu abagxekayo badla ngokubagxeka kakhulu abanye. Usenokufumanisa intlebendwane kunye nezimvo kwabanye kungeyongozi, kodwa ezi ngxelo ziluphawu nje olubonisa ukuba ungumntu ombi. Abahlobo bakho banokuziva behlukanisiwe nawe ngenxa yoloyiko lokuba uya kuthetha ngabo emva kwabo.

Nikela ingqalelo kwingxaki, kungekhona kwisicombululo

Umntu ogxekayo unobuchule bokuchaza zonke iingxaki kunye nokusilela, kodwa akazisi isicombululo kwezo ngxaki.

Unengxaki yokugcina ubudlelwane

Ingxaki yokungabugcini ubudlelwane bakho bentlalontle inokuba luphawu lokuba ugxeka ngakumbi kunokuba uqonda. Kule meko, konke okufuneka ukwenze kukuzihlola kunye nokuziphatha kwakho kakuhle ukuze ubuyisele ubuhlobo bakho.

Sukuba nemincili ngekamva

Umntu ongenzi nto uba nembono emfiliba ngekamva, nto leyo emenza angabuhlolisisi ubuchule bakhe obutsha, amathuba, nezinto angenakukwazi ukuzenza kwixesha elizayo ngenxa yokuba sele egqibe kwelokuba akayi kuphumelela.

Ukunyangwa kwezi ngcinga zingalunganga kunye nesisombululo sokubuyisela isimo sakho esihle, silele ekucingeni okuncinci kwaye uzihlolisise kakuhle ukuze ukwazi ukubona iimeko ezidlulileyo kuwe kwaye uzilungise kwakhona. Ngokusonjululwa kwezi meko, utshintsho oluhle ebomini bakho luya kwenzeka.