Ulindele njani ukuba abo bakungqongileyo bakuthande?

Uthando lubaso lobomi, yinto esishukumisela ukuba siphile namhlanje kunye nemihla ngemihla, ngoko kubalulekile kwaye ithathwa njengenye yezinto ezisisiseko kwimpumelelo yobudlelwane bentlalo phakathi kwethu nabanye, kodwa ngaba ukhe wacinga ukuba ungalwandisa olo thando ezintliziyweni zabo bakungqongileyo kwaye uhlale kwitrone yeentliziyo zabo?

Uthando lunokuba nzima kwiimeko ezininzi, kodwa kulula ukulomeleza ezintliziyweni zabo sibathandayo Amanyathelo amancinci othando olukhulu:

Ekuqaleni : Zithobe, kuba ukuthobeka kufana nomlingo, ukushiya umlingo wothando ezintliziyweni zabanye.

Okwesibini : Musa ukuthetha kakhulu ngawe, njengoko oku kuya kwenza lowo umthandayo azive engonwabanga.

Isithathu : Mamela abanye ngogxininiso nangomdla, ngoko uya kubenza bazive bebalulekile.

Okwesine : Musa ukuthetha nabanye ngendlela ekhubekisayo, kuba akukho mntu uthanda oko.

Okwesihlanu: Musa ukungenelela kwinto engakukhathaleliyo okanye engeyiyo eyakho kwaye soloko uhlonipha ubumfihlo babo.

Okwesithandathu : Sukukhalaza kakhulu.Ukukhalaza kwenza abanye bangakuthandi ukuhlala nawe okanye ukuncokola nawe.

Isixhenxe: Thetha nabanye ngembeko nangencasa, kwaye usoloko wenza ukuba amazwi nezenzo zakho zibe zisimilo.

Isibhozo: Sukuthetha kakubi kwaye uhlale ulungile kwaye utsale abo bakungqongileyo.

Isithoba: Yabelana nabanye ngezinto abazithandayo, kwaye wabelane nabo ngezinto onomdla kuzo.

Ishumi: Yiba nabo ngamaxesha onke, ngamaxesha empumelelo nakumaxesha obunzima.

Amanyathelo alishumi okufikelela kuthando olumiliselwe ezintliziyweni zabanye ngonaphakade, sebenzisa nje.