Uphawu olulula lokuba ungumntu olungileyo

Uphawu olulula lokuba ungumntu olungileyo

Maxa wambi kuba nzima ngabanye abantu ukuvuma ukuba babephazama. Kwezinye iinkcubeko, ukuvuma impazamo kunokuthathwa njengophawu lobuthathaka okanye ubudenge, ngoko ke abanye babambelela ngokuqinileyo kumbono wokuqiniseka kunye nokuchaneka, ngokwengxelo epapashwe ngumnatha waseMelika i-CNBC.

Kodwa abaphandi baye bafumanisa ukuba xa umntu evuma ukuba akalunganga, ababonwa njengabangenabuchule obuncinci, banokubonwa njengabakrelekrele ngakumbi, besebenzisana ngakumbi, kwaye banobubele.

Iingcali neengcali ngengqondo ziye zaqinisekisa ukuba abantu abaphumelele kakhulu nabathandwayo aboyiki ukuthetha amagama amathathu alula: “Ndandingachananga.” Abantu abaphumelelayo kubomi babo bentlalontle nobungcali baqhubeka besenza oku kulandelayo:

1. Ukubaluleka kokufunda nokukhula

Xa umntu ephinda ephinda efunda njengokuphumelela, baqhubela ekuqondeni, kunokubala amaxesha awayelungile okanye engalunganga ngawo. Uphononongo olwenziwa ngoogqirha bengqondo uCarol Dweck noKarina Schuman luyakuxhasa oku, lufumanise ukuba umntu udla ngokuthatha uxanduva ngeempazamo zakhe ukuba ukholelwa ukuba unamandla okuguqula indlela aziphethe ngayo.

Undoqo kukuzikhumbuza ukuba nangona isenzo sasingalunganga, sinokutshintshwa kwixesha elizayo. Ukuvuma ukuba umntu uphosisile akuthethi kuthi ungumntu ombi.

2. Ulwazi oluninzi

Iingcali zikholelwa ukuba ngokukhawuleza ukutsibela kwindawo yokuzikhusela ngokukhawuleza emva kokuva ukugxekwa komnye yenye yeempazamo ezahlula iintsilelo, njengoko umntu ophumelelayo ephendula ngokuthi: “Ngaba unokundixelela ngakumbi?” Kwaye uphulaphule ngokwenene into ethethwa ngomnye.

Kule meko, umntu wamkela ngakumbi ukuqwalaselwa kunye neengcamango zabanye kwaye ubonakaliswe ngokukwazi ukwandisa indlela yakhe yokucinga ngesihloko okanye umcimbi.

3. Utyekelo lokunyamezelana

Xa umntu evuma ukuba uphosakele, akayi kubonwa njenamandla kunye nobuhlobo, kodwa uya kuba nokuxolelwa ngenxa yezono zabo.

Uhlolisiso olwenziwa sisazi ngengqondo uMolly Crockett lubonise ukuba abantu bakulungele ukuxolela abanye, kwanabantu abangabaziyo, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba enye indlela ikukwenzakalisa okanye ukubuphelisa ubuhlobo, bephoswa ziingenelo ebebenokuzisa kubo. Xa umntu ezivuma iimpazamo zakhe, udala amathuba angakumbi okugcina okanye ukulungisa olona nxibelelwano lubalulekileyo ebomini bakhe.

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