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Nawa amathiphu okusebenzelana nabantu ngobuchule obukhulu
Nawa amathiphu okusebenzelana nabantu ngobuchule obukhulu
1- Uma ufuna ukucela insizakalo kothile, qhelelana nenkulumo ethi “Ungakwenza lokhu…”. Isizathu siwukuthi isicelo sakho singanqatshwa, esikhundleni saso sithi “ngicela wenze.” Ngakho-ke, ithuba lokwenqatshwa alifakiwe.
2- Uma kwenzeka ufuna ukudida umuntu obhekene nawe, qondisa amehlo akho phakathi nebunzi lakhe! Lokhu kuziphatha kuzomenza abe novalo ngaphandle kokwazi isizathu, kanye nokuphazamisa ukugxila kwakhe.
3 - Uma ubuza umuntu umbuzo kodwa angaphenduli, noma uma uzwa ukuthi unamanga, yeka kalula ukukhuluma phakathi nengxoxo futhi umbheke emehlweni. IPsychology ithi le ndlela yenza umuntu aveze afuna ukukufihla.
4 - Uma uqala ingxoxo eqenjini elisha lochwepheshe noma lezemfundo, thola abanye ukuthi bazwelane nawe ngokubuza imibuzo futhi ucele izincazelo nezincazelo mayelana nodaba oluthile, okubenza bazizwe bebalulekile futhi kubenza basondele kuwe!
5 - Ukukhuluma nocingo kuphazamisa ukugxila komuntu, ngakho-ke uma ufuna ukuthatha noma yini kuye noma umnike noma yini, linda isikhathi sokukhuluma naye ocingweni ukuze uthole lokho okufunayo ngaphandle kokungabaza.
6 - Phakathi nezingxoxo ezibalulekile, zama ukunyakazisa ikhanda lakho kancane noma ukunqekuzisa ikhanda, ukuze wenze abanye balalele ngokucophelela amazwi akho futhi bawakhumbule.
I-7 - Uma ukhathazwa ukubukeka njalo kwanoma ubani kuwe, bheka izicathulo zakhe isikhathi eside. Ngakho-ke, uzocasuka yena futhi abuke kude nawe!
8- Ziqinisekise ukuthi uyasebenza.Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zikhomba ukuthi ingqondo isebenza njengokushoyo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi uma ukhathele futhi ungalali ngokwanele, phinda imisho ekhombisa ukuthi unamandla futhi ugcwele amandla, futhi uphika indaba yokukhathala, ngakho ingqondo yakho izosebenza ngokwalo mbono futhi ngeke uzizwe ukhathele.