Indlela enamandla yokubingelela iwukugona okugcwele lapho ugone omunye umuntu bese uyagona. Lokhu kuhlotshaniswa nokuqabula nokuthinta, ukumbambatha nokumamatheka kanye nokubukana kakhulu emehlweni futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokukhala.

Ukusunduza noma ukumbambatha ihlombe noma umhlane womunye umuntu kubatshela ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokuqeda ukwanga.

Kunokwehluka okuningi ekugoneni nasekugoneni, kuya ngokusemthethweni kobudlelwano, ubude besikhathi osubone ngaso omunye umuntu, izinkambiso zamasiko nokuthi isigameko sisesidlangalaleni noma siyimfihlo.