Uphawu olulula lokuthi ungumuntu omuhle

Uphawu olulula lokuthi ungumuntu omuhle

Ngezinye izikhathi kuba nzima ngabanye abantu ukuvuma ukuthi babenephutha. Kwamanye amasiko, ukuvuma iphutha kungabhekwa njengophawu lobuthakathaka noma ubuwula, ngakho abanye babambelela ngokuqinile embonweni wokuqiniseka nokunemba, ngokombiko oshicilelwe inethiwekhi yaseMelika i-CNBC.

Kodwa abacwaningi bathole ukuthi lapho othile evuma ukuthi unephutha, abagcini nje ngokubonwa njengabanekhono eliphansi, empeleni bangabonwa njengabahlakaniphe kakhulu, abahlanganyelayo, futhi abanobungane.

Ochwepheshe nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo baye baqinisekisa ukuthi abantu abaphumelela kakhulu nabathandekayo abesabi ukusho amazwi amathathu alula: “Nganginephutha.” Abantu abaphumelelayo ekuphileni kwabo kwezenhlalo nezomsebenzi baqhubeka benza lokhu okulandelayo:

1. Okuhamba phambili ekufundeni nasekukhuleni

Lapho umuntu ehlela kabusha ukufunda njengokuwinile, udlulela ekuqondeni, kunokubala izikhathi abelungile noma ezingalungile ngazo. Ucwaningo olwenziwa izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo uCarol Dweck noKarina Schuman liyakweseka lokhu, lithola ukuthi umuntu maningi amathuba okuba aziphendulele ngamaphutha akhe uma ekholelwa ukuthi unamandla okushintsha ukuziphatha kwakhe.

Okubalulekile wukuzikhumbuza ukuthi nakuba isenzo besingalungile, singashintshwa esikhathini esizayo. Ukuvuma ukuthi umuntu unephutha akusho ukuthi uthi ungumuntu omubi.

2. Ulwazi olwengeziwe

Ochwepheshe bakholelwa ukuthi ukugxumela endaweni yokuzivikela ngokushesha nje lapho bezwa ukugxekwa komunye kungenye yamaphutha ahlukanisa ukwehluleka, njengoba umuntu ophumelelayo ephendula ngokuthi: “Ungangitshela okwengeziwe?” Futhi ngisho ukulalela ngempela ukuthi omunye uthini.

Kulokhu, umuntu wamukela kakhudlwana okubonwayo nemibono yabanye futhi ubonakala ngekhono lokwandisa indlela yakhe yokucabanga ngesihloko noma udaba.

3. Ukuthambekela kokubekezelelana

Lapho umuntu evuma ukuthi unephutha, ngeke nje abonakale eqinile futhi enobungane, kodwa futhi cishe uyothethelelwa iziphambeko zakhe.

Ucwaningo olwenziwa isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uMolly Crockett lwembula ukuthi abantu banesifiso esiyisisekelo sokuthethelela abanye, ngisho nabantu abangabazi, mhlawumbe ngenxa yokuthi okunye kuwukulimaza noma ukuqeda ubuhlobo, baphuthelwe izinzuzo obekungabalethela zona. Lapho umuntu ewavuma amaphutha akhe, udala amathuba engeziwe okulondoloza noma ukulungisa ukuxhumana okubaluleke kakhulu ekuphileni kwakhe.

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