Ubhekana kanjani nomuntu ohahayo?
Ubhekana kanjani nomuntu ohahayo?
Ubhekana kanjani nomuntu ohahayo?
ungazweli
Umlingiswa ohahayo akanandaba nemizwa yabanye, futhi akesabi ukubalimaza.
ukuxhashazwa
Umuntu ohahayo uyingcweti yokuxhaphaza, futhi akanqeni ukuxhaphaza abanye aze afinyelele umgomo wakhe.
umona
Umona uhambisana nokuhaha, futhi umuntu ohahayo onesifiso esinamandla sokwengeziwe, angase afise lokho abanye abanakho, futhi afune ukukuthola.
Ukubona eduze
Umuntu ohahayo uhlale efuna ukwaneliseka ngokushesha nenzuzo esheshayo, kunokuba acabange futhi ahlelele ikusasa.
onganeliseki
Umlingiswa ohahayo akaneliseki, futhi uhlala efuna ingxenye enkulu yephayi, ngisho nangezindleko zabanye. Futhi, lapho esekutholile akufunayo, ubeka amehlo akhe kwelinye ilitshe elilandelayo.
“Mina nangemva kwami uzamcolo”
Lesi sisho sifingqa umlingiswa ohahayo; Banobugovu, babheka ukuzanelisa kwabo kuqala, futhi abanandaba nezidingo zabanye.
Ubhekana kanjani nobuntu obuhahayo?
Kungase kudingeke ubhekane nomlingiswa ohahayo ngenxa yokusondelana kwakhe nawe, noma ukubaluleka kwakhe kuwe. Nakuba kubonakala kunzima, akwenzeki, futhi okulandelayo kungase kukusize:
1- Khumbula: ukuthi ukuhaha kubi akusho ukuthi umuntu mubi
2-Zola futhi uziphathe kahle.
3- zwelana nomuntu ohahayo, futhi uzame ukuqonda isizathu sokuhaha kwakhe. Lokhu kungase kukwenze ukwazi ukumsiza.
4- Mnikeze usizo uma uzizwa ezimisele ukushintsha, futhi ungaphendukela kuchwepheshe.
5- Gwema umuntu ohahayo uma engakukhathazi, noma ekulimaza.