Bhekana nesikhwele sakhe ngobuhlakani

Amantombazane amaningi afuna ukushada nomuntu onomona nolawulayo; Ngoba-ke limelela amandla nobudoda, kodwa uma intombazane inobuntu obuqinile, asiyicebisi ukuba yenze kanjalo. amanye amathiphu azokusiza ukuthi ubhekane nendoda enomona.

Ungazami ukwenza ihaba ngokukhuluma ngomuntu ukuze umenze abe nomona, ngoba uwena wedwa ozozisola.

Methule kubangani bakho bese uzama ukuhamba naye ukuze azizwe eqiniseka futhi evikelekile. Lapho umcela ukuba wabelane nabangane bakho ngohambo lwakho lokuzijabulisa, uyozizwa eduduzekile futhi eqiniseka.

Imibuzo yendoda enomona ingase ikuhlanyise, kodwa zama ukuba nesineke futhi uzole futhi uyiphendule futhi ungabonisi ukungezwani ngoba lokhu kuzophakamisa izinsolo zayo nomona.

Kunamanye amadoda anomona ngemindeni nabangani; Nali iqhaza lakho ekucaciseni ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho naye buhlukene nomndeni nabangane, njengoba bobabili banendawo yakho kuwe, asikho isidingo sokubadida.

- Amanye amadoda alandela indlela yokuqapha ngaso sonke isikhathi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izingosi zokuxhumana nabantu noma ukucinga ocingweni futhi mhlawumbe nezinto zakho, kodwa khumbula ukuthi ngesenzo sakhe ngasinye okokuqala, wamvumela ukuba enze lokho, ngakho-ke khombisa ukubhuqa okucacile Ungambuza ukuthi kukhona okulahlekile noma udinga okuthile, Landela naye inkhulumomphendvulwano ethule ebonakala ngokuqonda nokulalela.

- Dweba imingcele ngoba unomona, umyeni wakho angase akhethe ukukugcina ekhejini lakhe futhi akuvimbele ekwenzeni noma yimuphi umsebenzi wokuzijabulisa, kungcono ukumbuza imibuzo ethile: Ingabe ngike ngakukhohlisa? Ingabe wake wakwenza okuthile okwakwenza wadumala? Lokhu kumsiza ukuthi abone izinto njengoba zinjalo ngempela futhi ngokucacile futhi abuyisele ukwethemba kwakhe kuwe. Kodwa qiniseka ukuthi ingxoxo yakho ayithathi udlame. Kodwa uma imbangela yomona kuwukungazethembi, mkhombise ukuthi uhlala naye ngoba umthanda. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi uqede ukuziphatha kwakhe komhawu okucasulayo.