Ungayenza kanjani impilo yakho ibe ngcono

• Okubaluleke kakhulu ukwazi ukuthi injabulo ihlala kude nalabo abangafuni ukubona uhlangothi oluhle lwalokho abanakho futhi bagxilise amandla abo kulokho okungekuhle empilweni yabo, ngakho-ke qala ukukhetha umqondo owodwa esikhundleni somunye futhi wazi ukuthi ikhono lakho. ukufaka esikhundleni semicabango engalungile ngokuqondile kuhambisana nenjabulo yakho.
• Nquma ukuthi yiziphi izinto okufanele ubambelele kuzo nokuthi yiziphi okufanele uziyeke: Ukubambelela ezintweni ngokuvamile kusenza sibe buthaka futhi ukuziyeka kusenza sibe namandla.Ingabe into eyakuphatha kabi esikhathini esidlule ibalulekile ngempela kuwe manje? Nakanjani akunjalo.Ngokunjalo, okukuzwisa ubuhlungu okwamanje ngeke kukuthinte esikhathini esizayo.
• Thethelela noma kunjalo: izinto zenzeke ngendlela ezihloswe ngayo.Uma ubambelele entukuthelweni ethile noma emuntwini, izinto zisuke zibheda kakhulu kuwena, uboshelwe kuleyo nto ngesibopho esinamandla kunensimbi.Ukuxolela iyona kuphela indlela yokukhululeka entukuthelweni nasezinhlungwini, uma ngisho Nokuxolelwa kungabuqedi ubuhlobo.Obunye ubudlelwano abuqondile ukuthi buhlale, kodwa xolela noma kunjalo.
• Yenza lokho ocabanga ukuthi kulungile: izinto eziningi ongakwazi ukuzenza noma okungaba lula ukuzifinyelela noma othile akuphoqelela, kodwa akusifanele isikhathi sakho noma umzamo wakho, zithembe futhi usebenze.

• Yenza konke okuhle ongakwenza ngenani elikhulu labantu.Isenzo ngasinye sisuka othandweni nomusa, esingenazo zonke izithakazelo noma umgomo, futhi sibuyela kumnikazi waso.
• Ezintweni zakho zansuku zonke, ngokuvamile awuboni ukuthi umkhulu kangakanani, kodwa abanye abaseduze kwakho bayakubona.Uma othile esho into enhle kuwe, kuyinto efanele ukukhunjulwa ngaphezu kwanoma yini esengqondweni yakho.
• Kuhle ukuzwa abantu bekuncoma futhi bakukhumbule, kodwa akusona isisekelo sokuzethemba, futhi uma umuntu engakuncomi zincome, awudingi ukuthi abantu bakuhlole ngaso sonke isikhathi.
• “Ukujabulisa abantu kuwumgomo ongafinyeleleki.” Awukwazi ukujabulisa wonke umuntu futhi akumele uzame, ngakho-ke ungabi nandaba namazwi abazondayo. Jabula futhi uziqhenye ngawe ngaphandle kokwahlulela abanye abakwenzayo ngawe. .Zijwayeze ukulalela ukutuswa nokugxeka okwakhayo futhi ungakunaki ukuhlukunyezwa okubi.
• Thola ukuthi yini ekushukumisela ukuba usondelane nomuntu wakho wasekuqaleni, khumbula ukuthi ngeke ukwazi ukukhula uma wenqaba ukushintsha futhi ushiye amafa.
• Impumelelo empilweni ngeyabantu abazifelayo ngabakwenzayo thola into ekujabulisayo ugxile kuyo.

• Umehluko phakathi kwakho nalokho okufunayo yizaba zokuthi uqhubeka uzinikela, uzithethelela ngokuhluleka kwakho ukuzuza lokho okufunayo.Uma unekhono ekubekeni izaba, kuyeke lokho ukuze uzivikele ekuhlulekeni.
• Ungazisoli ngamaphutha akho esikhathi esidlule futhi ungayeki ukwenza amaphutha, akwenza uhlakaniphe.Uma ufuna ukwenza okufanele yenza amaphutha amaningi.
• Ungavumeli ukwesaba kwakho izehlakalo ezidlule kuphazamise umphumela wekusasa lakho.Phila impilo yakho ngalokho okunikezwa namuhla, ungakulahlekele izolo.Khohlwa okulahlekele futhi ugxile kulokho okufundile.

• Wonke umcimbi ongafuneki (umuntu noma isimo) uyisango lokuya kuwena kweqiniso olandelayo, enguqulweni engcono nehlakaniphe ngawe.
• Awukwazi ukukhetha wonke umuntu ohlangana naye empilweni yakho, kodwa ungakhetha ukuthi ufuna ukuchitha isikhathi nobani, ngakho-ke bonga labo bantu abafika empilweni yakho bayenza yaba ngcono, futhi ubonge inkululeko onayo. ukuhamba kubantu abangakwenzi.
• Nethezeka, wenele wena, unakho konke okudingayo, wenza noma yini edingekayo, phefumula ujule, futhi uphile manje ngaleso sikhathi.