Ulindele ukuthi abaseduze kwakho bakuthande kanjani?

Uthando luwumthombo wokuphila, yilona olusishukumisela ukuba siphile namuhla nezinsuku zonke, ngakho-ke lubalulekile futhi lubhekwa njengenye yezinto eziyisisekelo empumelelweni yobudlelwane bomphakathi obuphakathi kwethu nabanye, kodwa uke wacabanga uma ungakwazi ukwandisa lolo thando ezinhliziyweni zalabo abakuzungezile futhi uhlale esihlalweni sezinhliziyo zabo?

Uthando lungaba nzima ezikhathini eziningi, kodwa lulula ekuluqiniseni ezinhliziyweni zalabo esibathandayo.Izinyathelo ezincane zothando olukhulu:

Okokuqala : Zithobe, ngoba ukuthobeka kufana nomlingo, ukushiya umlingo wothando ezinhliziyweni zabanye.

Okwesibili : Ungakhulumi kakhulu ngawe, ngoba lokhu kuzokwenza othandiweyo wakho azizwe engakhululekile.

Okwesithathu : Lalela abanye ngokugxilisa ingqondo nesithakazelo, ngakho uyobenza bazizwe bebalulekile.

Okwesine : Ungakhulumi nabanye ngendlela ecasulayo, ngoba akekho othanda lokho.

Okwesihlanu: Ungagxambukeli kokungakuthinti noma okungekona okwakho futhi uhlale uhlonipha ubumfihlo babo.

Okwesithupha : Ungakhonondi kakhulu.Ukukhononda kwenza abanye bangathandi ukuhlala nawe noma ukuxoxa nawe.

Okwesikhombisa: Khuluma nabanye ngesizotha nanganambithekayo, futhi ngaso sonke isikhathi wenze amazwi nezenzo zakho zibe zonke izimilo.

Okwesishiyagalombili: Ungakhulumi kabi futhi uhlale uqondile futhi uhehe abaseduze kwakho.

Okwesishiyagalolunye: Yabelana nabanye abakuthandayo, futhi wabelane nabo ngezithakazelo zakho.

Okweshumi: Yiba nabo ngaso sonke isikhathi, ezikhathini zokuchuma nangezikhathi zokucindezeleka.

Izinyathelo eziyishumi zokufinyelela othandweni olugxilile ezinhliziyweni zabanye kuze kube phakade, vele ulusebenzise.