Where he justifies to you all his mistakes with you and all his neglect of you, and all the false promises, that they are the result of his very difficult circumstances of which he is a victim

He drops his faults on you, and his shortening is a reaction to your failure, and he searches for your small mistakes and reminds you of them every time, as his concern is to make you feel bad about yourself.

He draws you a mental picture of him as a hero and he will do whatever you want, but when you come to actions, you find that they are the opposite of his picture that he painted for you.

He finds the deficiencies of everything you dream or aspire to, he uses negative selection to find faults in you.

He tries to criticize you with everything and wraps us in a kind of love of advice to you

He makes great dreams and hopes for you, and turns you to the unknown where he says to you, One day I will return your good, when I have money I will give you, when we marry I will make you live like kings.