Kukhala chete kwa amuna anu kumakuvutitsani?Nayi njira yamatsenga yothana ndi munthu wopanda pake

Mkazi amakhumudwa kwambiri ndi kukhala chete kwa mwamuna yemwe amamukonda, makamaka ngati ndi mwamuna wake, ndipo ali ndi nkhawa komanso mantha, choncho amaona kuti mwamuna uyu sakumukondanso, ndipo amayamba kuwerengeranso chifukwa chake anasinthira. kuchitira naye nkhanza, ndi chifukwa chanji chomwe chinamupangitsa kuti amude ndi kumuchitira nkhanza zonsezo ndi kumupatula.Chomwe simukudziwa n’chakuti mwamuna mwachibadwa amakonda kukhala chete, popeza sali bwino kufotokoza zomwe zili. kuyenda mkati mwake, koma ndi luntha lanu ndi ukazi wokongola, pali njira zomwe zingakuthandizeni kumumvetsetsa ndi kukhala ndi mtima wake:

Pachiyambi, dona wanga, muyenera kudziwa kuti mwamuna ali ndi chikhalidwe chosiyana kwambiri ndi kaganizidwe kanu kuposa inu, ndipo mumayesetsa kuvomereza ndi kuzolowerana nazo, popeza sangachite zinthu ziwiri kapena kuganiza za zinthu ziwiri zosiyana. nthawi yomweyo, kotero musalankhule naye ali otanganidwa, sadzakumvani.

Yesetsani kugawana naye mavuto anu, ndipo funsani maganizo ake pazinthu zina zomwe zimakukhudzani, koma onetsetsani kuti musamulowetse m'mavuto anu kuti asatope ndi inu, ndipo motero adzamva kufunika kwake ndi malo ake akuluakulu. moyo wanu, ndipo samalani nthawi zonse posankha nthawi yoyenera yolankhula naye.

Limbikitsani mwamuna wanu kutulutsa zimene zili mkati mwake, ndipo nthaŵi zonse musonyeze chiyamikiro ndi chikondi kwa iye pa mawu alionse amene anganene kwa inu, ndipo samalani kuti musakumane ndi mwamuna wanu kukhala chete mwakachetechete kuti nyumba yanu isanduke kukhala nyumba yachete. Ndipo zomangira zapakati panu zaduka.

Lankhulani naye za zinthu zomwe zimamusangalatsa, pezani zomwe amakonda ndikuzitsatira kuti mukambirane naye za zinthu zomwe amakonda, kotero mutha kupanga chinthu chofanana pakati panu kuti mumulimbikitse kulankhula nanu.

Lekani kuyesa kumusintha ndikumukakamiza kuti alankhule nanu, ndipo bwerezani mawu oti "ndilankhulani" chifukwa njira iyi yachindunji idzawonetsa zoipa pa iye ndi inu ndipo idzapangitsa mwamuna wanu kutali ndi inu kwambiri, chitani mwanzeru, mwanzeru komanso moleza mtima mpaka mumapeza zomwe mukufuna.

Onetsetsani kuti mwasankha mitu yosangalatsa komanso yabwino komanso zokambirana komanso kukhala zoseketsa, mutha kudzutsa zomwe zimamupangitsa chidwi komanso chidwi chake kuti amve kuti kuyankhula nanu ndikosangalatsa, kosangalatsa komanso kosangalatsa.

Landirani chilichonse chimene mwamunayo akusonyeza ndiponso m’njira imene akuona kuti n’choyenera, amuna ena amaonetsa mphatso, ndipo ena amakonza kapena kusintha m’nyumba, onetsetsani kuti njira zonsezi ndi njira yokhayo yosonyezera chikondi kwa inu. osati kuzikana izo.