Unokanganwa sei kuti munhu waunoda akakurasa?

Ndiwo mubvunzo wakaoma kwazvo, uyo kunyangwe tikaedza sei kubvunza mhinduro nezvazvo, mhinduro chaiyo inoramba isingazivikanwe, hapana chinogona kuita kuti ukanganwe rudo rwawakarota kwemakore kana mumwe munhu wawakanamatira moyo wako, kunze kwako iwe. haisi nyore kukanganwa uye kutevera hupenyu sekunge hapana chakaitika.

Iwe uri nostalgic uye zvibvunze iwe, ini ndinokwanisa kupedzisa mugwagwa ndega here?

Uchazvibata iwe pachako here paunoona mifananidzo inokuunzai pamwe chete, muchachema here kana zita rake richitaurwa? 

Nhasi muAna Salwa, uye kubva pane zvakaitika kune vanhu vakapfuura nhanho imwe chete - uye vazhinji vavo vari - takakupfupikisa iwe seti yezvigadziriso zvichakubatsira iwe kukanganwa mumwe munhu akatengesa mwoyo wako, kana kukuparadzanisa iwe kubva. nguva yemamwe mamiriro ezvinhu.

Tarisa pakubudirira kwako kwehunyanzvi

Mushure mokurambana, unogona kuwana nguva yakawanda mberi, yawaizowanzopedza uchizvironga iwe pachako kubuda naye kana kumupedza chero kupi zvako naye. Zvechokwadi, iwe waiwanzotora maminitsi mashanu pamberi pebasa, uye panguva imwe neimwe yeawa yebasa, uye kupfupisa basa kuti usangane naye kana kutaura naye parunhare, nguva yose iyi ndeyako ikozvino, uye nzira yakanakisisa yekushandisa nayo. Kuigovera kuita chimwe chinhu chinobatsira chinoita kuti ubudirire. Ehe, iwe unogona kuigovera kune mumwe munhu, asi chiitiko inguva yako yakakosha yaunofanirwa kuisa mari mukusimudzira bhizinesi rako.

Rangarira hunhu hwakashata hwaaive nahwo kwauri

Chero zvingaitika pakati penyu imi vaviri, munokwanisa kupedza nguva yakawanda muchifunga nezvekumupa mumwe mukana. Saka, ingave rondedzero yezvayakanakira nezvakashata, kana kopi yeemail yakasimba kwazvo yandakakutumira panguva yeimwe yezvinetso zvawakatarisana nazvo, usakanganise chiremerera chako, uye simbisa kusimba kwako nezvakashata izvi zvakasiya kukanganisa kukuru. muhupenyu hwako naye.

Sangana nemumwe munhu, uye vhura mwoyo wako zvakare kuti uve nerudo

Bvunza shamwari dzako nezvekuti vakakanganwa sei nezve ex, uye iwe ungangonzwa chimwe chinhu chakadai, "Unofanira kubuda uye kusangana nevanhu vatsva!" (Kudai waiva murume zano racho sezvingabvira raizova rokuti “Handei tinonwa uye tisangane navasikana!”) Asi ingodzokera muupenyu hwako hwokushamwaridzana nokukurumidza sezvinobvira. Zvinogona kukushamisa kuti vangani vanhu vanoda kutaura newe, vanokuremekedza uye vanokukoshesa, kusiyana nemunhu wawaida akakusiya.

Usataura nezvake uye usachema nekuda kwekuparadzana kwake pamberi peumwe weshamwari dzako

Kana mwoyo wako wakaputsika, zviri nyore kwazvo kugara neshamwari uye kutaura pamusoro pemarwadzo ose aya auri kunzwa nokuti basa ravo nderekutsigira uye kukubatsira kuti usimuke zvakare, asi chenjerera kuti iyi inova tsika yako yechigarire, unogona kungoerekana usina. mudiwa uye asina shamwari zvakare. Kana ukataura zvakawanda pamusoro pekare mira izvozvi.Mharidzo yako yasvika kubva pazuva rekutanga. Zvidzidzise kuti utaure nezvezvimwe zvinhu neshamwari dzako, uye uchaona kuti watokanganwa nezvazvo.

Wedzera kusatya kwako

Chinja hasha dzako kuti dzive mafuta ekushandisa mukurovedza muviri, semuenzaniso, kana kuita chero chinhu chipi zvacho chinokuita kuti unzwe uchidzora zvinhu. Usarega simba rose rakashata rakakupoteredza richikuputira, asi ritungamirire mumabasa anobatsira iwe nemuviri wako.

Banga ndiro simba rako rakasimba

Chero kuguma kwenyaya yako yerudo, kune nyaya dzakaipa kupfuura yako, saka vhara gonhi kumashure kwako uye uende parwendo kuenda kune zvakasikwa, kungave kwekufamba kwenguva, kana kumisasa kana kushanyira nyika yawagara uchida. kuvhakachira. Zviri nyore kunzwa zvisingabatsiri kunyanya mushure mekunge mudiwa wako akuisa pasherufu, asi iwe chete unogona kuratidza zvakasiyana. Kusurukirwa kunouraya manzwiro ose akanaka uye akanaka, saka ngazvirege kukuuraya, uye uende kunze, kure nekeji yawakazvisunga iwe pachako, uye uchaona kuti hupenyu hahugumi nemunhu mumwe chete, asi hunombundira vose vanohumbundira. uye anoimutsa zvakare.

Rasa zvose zvingakuyeuchidza nezvake

Hongu, bvisa mameseji ese anokuyeuchidza nezvekare, ndakamirira makore maviri ndisati ndakanda tsamba nemifananidzo uye kugovera matoyi, makenduru uye zvipo zvinondiyeuchidza nezvake, asi ndakazviita uye ipapo ndakasununguka zvachose. Ndanga ndiri mudhirowa redhesiki rangu kwenguva refu, uye kunyangwe rimire, rakadzora manzwiro angu zuva nezuva. Saka bvisa uye iwe uchanzwa wakasununguka, kuberekwa patsva pasina kunorwadza kwekare.