Chero ukaita zvakanaka sei, pane vanokuvenga.

Tinowanzova nemubvunzo unomanikidza watinozvibvunza isu semugumisiro wehukama hwedu hwepanyama, sei munhu uyu achindivenga? Sei achindishuvira kuti ndimutuke ndomutsvaga?
Uye isu hatiwani mhinduro inonzwisisika kumhando iyi yemubvunzo, sezvo isingatsamiri pane zvatinoita chete, asi inoenderana nemaitiro uye manzwiro anooneka evamwe.
Ruvengo ndeimwe yemhando dzemanzwiro uye manzwiro anokunda pfungwa, uye anowanzoonekwa nenzira yezviito zvisina kunaka nemashoko uye anogona kunge ane manzwiro makuru pane dzimwe nguva, uye mune mamwe ari muchimiro chekufuratira, uye dzimwe nguva manzwiro aya. haiperekedzi chero zviito zvekunze, asi inoramba yakavigwa mukati. Nezvesayenzi, masayendisiti akawana kuti pane nzvimbo dziri muuropi dzinokonzera manzwiro aya, uye anotanga kuoneka asati aoneka muchimiro chezviito nezviito.
Mupfungwa, ndiwo mugumisiro wemaitiro ane chekuita nemanzwiro edu emukati kune mumwe munhu semugumisiro wemanzwiro atinovanza anobatsira kuunza ruvengo, uye imwe yemanzwiro aya kutya. Muhukama hwake hwemagariro evanhu kana kuti ane motokari itsva. .
Uye kana tikacherechedza kuti mazhinji emanzwiro ekutanga haana kuberekwa nechinangwa chemunhu anovengwa, iye maneja anoita basa rake, kana munhu anoshingaira kana anodiwa ane hukama hwakawanda, kana munhu akapfuma ane motokari. vamwe vanhu, vakadai somunhu anovengwa ari kumurova, kumuba, kuendesa nhau dzake kuna maneja wake kubasa, kana kuti kukurudzira vari pedyo naye kuti vamusiye akadaro.
Heano Salwa, akanyanya kukosha zviratidzo zvekuvenga:

Kusatambira maonero ako:

Kana wanga uri mune imwe yemisangano, cherechedza kuti anobvuma kusvika papi uye anobvumirana nemirangariro yako.Kana achingogara achiramba uye achipikisana nazvo pasina chikonzero uye nguva dzose, zvino idimikira remanzwiro ekuvenga iwe.Pano zvakare , musiyano unofanira kuitwa pakati pokuti anovenga kana kuti nenzira yomuzvarirwo munhu anoshora mirangariro uye anofunga kuti iye akarurama nguva dzose mumurangariro wake.
maonero:

Vanhu vazhinji vanogovana zvavanofunga nevanhu kune avo vari pedyo navo, shamwari, mhuri, kana vamwe vaunoziva uye vaunoshanda navo, saka kuziva izvo munhu anokuvenga anotaura nezvako kune avo vakamupoteredza zvinokupa humbowo hwakasimba hwemanzwiro emunhu uyu kwauri kana kwako. kucherekedza kwavo mukutora chinzvimbo chepamberi pauri iwe usingazive.
zviito:

Cherechedza kuti munhu uyu anoita sei newe, maitiro anopa maonero akajeka kwauri pamusoro pekuti vanhu vanonzwa sei pamusoro pako, semuenzaniso, kusava nehanya nemhinduro kwauri kana kugara kure kubva pakuzarura hurukuro newe, izvi zvinoratidza kuvenga, kana kuongorora. nzira yaanotaura newe uye achiienzanisa nematauriro aanoita nevamwe, zvakare kutonhora kana kunyemwerera kunyemwerera uye kudyidzana Passively newe panguva yenhaurirano inoonekwa seruvengo humbowo.
Kukanganisa zvauri kutaura:

Chese chauchataura, uye chero chauchataura, chinogara chine dudziro isina kunaka, uye inotakura kupfuura zvazvinofanira uye inotakura divi rakapesana nevavariro yako kana kuti haina kana kupinda mupfungwa dzako.
Dzimwe nguva maitiro anove ane hutsinye pasina chiitiko: mamiriro ezvinhu aya haadi tsananguro, muvengi anozvitaura pachena kwauri kuti anokuvenga. Kana kuti kuita nenzira yakajeka, inoratidzirwa nokufamba kwechiso, kana kuti mashoko.
Handisi kunzwa kusununguka pauri:

Uye chiito ichi chakarurama zvachose, saka iwe unofanirwa kutarisa kana iwe uri wega munzvimbo uye uchicherechedza maitiro ake, anonzwa akasununguka, uye iwe pachako wakasununguka nechirongwa ichi kana kwete? Asi munofanira kutsaura pakati pomunhu anokuvengai uye anokuvengai, uye munhu anonyara uye asingafungi nezvaakasika.
Zvikonzero zvakaitwa:

Anogona kutaura zvakawanda pamberi pevanhu kuti iwe ndiwe unomuvenga uye haazivi kuti unomuvengerei.Uku kuzviruramisa asati azvipembedza pamberi pako pamusoro pechikonzero chokukuvenga uye asati akuita. chero chiito chinobva kwaari chakajeka kwauri, iye uye iwe unonyatsoziva kuti haana chokwadi uye manzwiro ake haana chikonzero Chaizvoizvo uye chaicho kubva kwauri.
Uye Faisal pano ndiko kuyananiswa iwe pachako, kana usina kuyananiswa iwe pachako, zvirokwazvo hauzoyanani nevamwe, uye unogona kuvenga chero munhu pasina zvikonzero zvinonzwisisika, uye chinhu chisipo hachimupi chokwadi. iwe pachako, saka unoda vamwe sei?

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