Uphendula njani ngokufanelekileyo kwisithuko?

Cwaka

Inyathelo lokuqala kukuthula, emva kokuba umntu ekuthukile yeka ukuthetha, ungamphenduli ngokukhawuleza okanye unxibelelane naye, asithethi apha. thulani sisithuko Kunoko, vele uvale kwaye uthule kwaye uqalise ukumjonga, kodwa musa ukwenza oku kubonakale kunobutshaba okanye ukwesaba, ukungaqiniseki ngokwalo, lo mbandela wokuthula uneenzuzo ezimbini eziphambili.
Inzuzo yokuqala kukuphefumla rhoqo, kuba ukuphefumla okuzolileyo kukunceda ukulawula imithambo-luvo yakho kwaye ungalahleki ingqalelo yakho.Inzuzo yesibini kukuba ixesha lokuthula liyinto ebaluleke kakhulu kubugcisa bokuthuka.Kufuneka usebenzise eli xesha kwaye uqonde ukuba yintoni injongo yalo mntu ukuba akuthuke okanye akucaphukise, kuba oku kuya kukunceda ukuba uphendule ngokufanelekileyo kwesi sithuko, kodwa uqaphele ukwenza ukuthula kwakho kube kude kakhulu ukuze ungabonakali njengomntu owoyikayo okanye owoyikayo. , okanye ngokungathi ukhetha ukuthula ngaphezu kokuthukwa.

Uqinisekiso 

Emva kokuthula kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba ukuthukile ukuze kungabikho kuxambulisana, umzekelo, uthi kuye: “Uyayiqonda na le nto uyithethayo? okanye "Uqinisekile ngale nto?" Kwaye uzame ukusebenzisa impendulo yakhe ukuze ufumanise ukuba ngokwenene uthetha ukuba, eli nyathelo lihlakaniphile kwaye line-prank ukwenzela ukuba xa uzama ukugxininisa isithuko kwaye ubuze kuye, umenze lo mntu azihlolisise kwaye athethe ukuba yayisigqibo esifanelekileyo. ukukuthuka nokuba makaqhubeke okanye arhoxe
Ukuthi cwaka kumbonisa ukuba unengqiqo kwaye awucaphuki msinya. Nokuba uthatha isigqibo sokurhoxa kwisithuko okanye aqhubeke, uya kuba ngophumeleleyo kwaye imeko ikwicala lakho, kuba nguwe obonakala elawula imeko.  .
Ukuba uthe wasirhoxisa isithuko sakhe waza wagqiba kwelokuba axolise okanye arhoxise amazwi akhe, uya kubonakala ungumntu onamandla kuloo meko, kodwa ukuba uthe waphakamisa isithuko sakhe waza waphendula, ngoko sidlulela kwisinyathelo sesithathu. .

phazamisa 

Ngelixa ekuphenduleni kwaye eqhubeka nencoko yakhe apha, akufanele ukuba umyeke aqhubeke namazwi akhe kwaye umphazamise ngendlela ehlakaniphile kwaye umyeke yedwa ukuze angahambi ngakumbi kwaye umbonise ukuba kufuneka uhlonitshwe kwaye uhloniphe ikusasa lakho kwaye umntu wakho, umzekelo uthi ukuba uyaqonda ukuba kutheni ekungcikiveni kwaye uqonde into ovakalelwa ngayo Ikwenza, kodwa kufuneka uyibonise ngoncumo olubanzi kwaye uzithembile ngamazwi akho.
Xa uphazamisa intetho yakhe, umzekelo, kwaye umcacisele ukuba uyasiqonda isizathu sokuphambana kwakhe, apha uya kuba nokhetho olunye kuphela, oko kukuthi, ukuthula nokumamela wena, kwaye apha uya kuba umnqobile.

bonakalisa ukungonwabi

Inyathelo lesine kukubonakalisa ukungoneliseki kwakho sisithuko nendlela esikuchaphazele ngayo. Ngokomzekelo, xa uphazamisa intetho yakhe, uthi kuye, “Ndiyawuqonda umsindo wakho, kodwa andiyamkeli indlela oye wayisebenzisa kuba indlela oye wayisebenzisa yayingafanelekanga yaye akunalungelo lokuthetha nam ngale ndlela.” Le ndlela ibonisa ukuba le ndlela isetyenziswayo yayingafanelekanga. umntu ophambi kwakho ukuba nangona enomsindo, kukho imida ukuba angaweli.

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