Ubuciko bokuziphatha kahle ngamagama

Ngokuvamile, indlela yokuziphatha igxile ekuzihlonipheni, ekuhlonipheni abanye nasekuphatheni kahle, ikhombisa indlela yokuziphatha nenhlalo, ubuhlakani kanye nekhono lokubhekana nezimo, futhi inkomba yayo isiko lesintu elingahlukani ezweni elilodwa kuye kwelinye. omunye.
Futhi, ukuziphatha okuhle esikulandela njalo kuletha imiphumela emihle kunoma yisiphi isimo, ikakhulukazi kulokho okubizwa ngokuthi ubuciko bokukhuluma….

1- Isici sobudala:
Isikhulumi kumele sicabangele iminyaka yesikhulumi ahlezi naye.Uma umuntu emdala kunawe kumele umnikeze ithuba lokukhuluma kuqala ungamphazamisi.Futhi izihloko kumele zikhethwe ngokweminyaka isikhulumi, ngoba inkathi ngayinye inezici zayo.

2- ithoni yezwi:
Kubaluleke kakhulu kwezobuciko bokuziphatha ukukhetha ithoni efanelekile yezwi ngenkathi ugwema ngangokunokwenzeka umsindo omkhulu ngoba unikeza umbono omubi kumuntu, ikakhulukazi ukuhleka ngokuzwakalayo akwamukeleki kwezobuciko bokuziphatha.

3- Ukukhuluma etafuleni lokudlela ngenkathi udla:
Hhayi ukuzibandakanya ezingxoxweni ezibukhali, kodwa kunalokho ukukhuluma ngezihloko ezithakazelisayo, ngenkathi ugwema ukukhuluma ngenkathi udla, noma okungenani ukubeka isandla emlonyeni ngenkathi ukhuluma.

4- Ubuciko bokulalela:
Isikhulumi kumelwe sibe nesu lokungacunuli enkulumweni yaso, kodwa kufanele futhi sibe isilaleli esihle futhi sinikeze omunye ithuba lokuveza umbono wakhe ngaphandle kokumphazamisa, ngisho noma engavumelani naye ngemibono.
Isikhulumi esingacunuli kunawo wonke siyisilaleli esihle

5- Ungasho kulowo owenze iphutha (Awulungile..) kodwa uthi: (Ungahle ulungile, kodwa ngiyacabanga.) ...

6- Ungasebenzisi izinto zokwenziwa:

Ukukhuluma nokwenza kudinga umzamo nokugxilisa ingqondo. Njengokusebenzisa amagama osanda kuwafunda nofisa ukuwasebenzisa, noma ukunyakaza okuthile komzimba, noma ukusebenzisa amagama ngezilimi ezihlukahlukene, njengokusho igama lesiNgisi, igama lesi-Arabhu, igama lesiFulentshi.
7- Gwema ukukhuluma ngawe, izenzo zakho, impilo yakho noma isifo sakho.

8 Uma ingxoxo igxile esihlokweni esikude nolwazi noma isiko lakho, kuwukulalela ukulalela futhi kuwukuhlakanipha ukuzama ukusinaka nokusiqonda.
9- Zithobe enkulumweni yakho futhi ucele imvume yokuthatha izwi.
10- Ungahlebi endlebeni yamuntu niseqenjini
11- Ningashintshisani nithi nhla nabathile abakhona lapho nicwayiza abanye
12- Ungasho (yena) noma (yena) ngomuntu wesithathu okhona phakathi kwezikhulumi

13- Ungathophi futhi ungabi omunye wabathophi bamanga

14- Zijwayeze ukudumisa nokubonga ngesizotha esikhulu nangesizotha.

 

 

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Umeluleki Wezengqondo

URyan Sheikh Mohammed