Ubhekana kanjani nendoda enomona?

Amantombazane amaningi afuna ukushada nomuntu onomona nolawulayo; Ngoba imelela amandla nobudoda kuyo, kodwa uma intombazane inobuntu obuqinile, asiyicebisi ukuba yenze kanjalo. , ngakho-ke sizokunikeza amathiphu azokusiza ukubhekana nendoda enomona.
Ungazami ukwenza ihaba ukhulume ngomuntu ukuze umenze abe nomona ngoba uwena wedwa ozozisola

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Methule kubangani bakho bese uzama ukumthatha uhambe naye ukuze ezwe
Ngokuzethemba nokuvikeleka. Lapho umcela ukuba wabelane nabangane bakho ngohambo lwakho lokuzijabulisa, uyozizwa eduduzekile futhi eqiniseka.

Imibuzo yendoda enomona ingase ikuhlanyise, kodwa zama ukuba nesineke futhi uzole futhi uyiphendule futhi ungabonisi ukungezwani ngoba lokhu kuzophakamisa izinsolo zayo nomona.

Kukhona amadoda ashintsha imindeni nabangane; Nali iqhaza lakho ekucaciseni ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho naye buhlukene nomndeni nabangane, njengoba bobabili banendawo yakho kuwe, asikho isidingo sokubadida.

- Amanye amadoda alandela indlela yokuqapha ngaso sonke isikhathi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi izingosi zokuxhumana nabantu noma ukucinga ocingweni futhi mhlawumbe nezinto zakho, kodwa khumbula ukuthi ngesenzo sakhe ngasinye okokuqala, wamvumela ukuba enze lokho, ngakho-ke khombisa ukubhuqa okucacile Ungambuza ukuthi kukhona okulahlekile noma udinga okuthile, Landela naye inkhulumomphendvulwano ethule ebonakala ngokuqonda nokulalela.

Dweba imingcele ngoba unomona.Umyeni wakho angase ancamele ukukugcina ekhejini lakhe futhi akuvimbele ukuthi wenze noma yikuphi ukuzijabulisa.Kungcono ukumbuza imibuzo ethile: Wake wakukhohlisa? Ingabe wake wakwenza okuthile okwakwenza wadumala? Lokhu kumsiza ukuthi abone izinto njengoba zinjalo ngempela futhi ngokucacile futhi abuyisele ukwethemba kwakhe kuwe. Kodwa qiniseka ukuthi ingxoxo yakho ayithathi udlame. Kodwa uma imbangela yomona kuwukungazethembi, mkhombise ukuthi uhlala naye ngoba umthanda. Lokhu kuzokusiza ukuthi uqede ukuziphatha kwakhe komhawu okucasulayo.

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URyan Sheikh Mohammed