Ungaba kanjani ukhanga kakhulu?

Umqondo wokukhanga kwabesifazane uyahluka kumuntu ngamunye, ukuze adwebe engqondweni yakhe imininingwane ethile yowesifazane akhangwayo, kodwa kunemiqondo evamile okungekho noyedwa ongavumelani nayo kukho konke ukunambitheka, indawo kanye namasiko, avela kuwe. ukukhanga emehlweni akho kuqala ukuze kubonakale kuwo wonke umuntu oseduze kwakho, sizobona ezinye zalezi zichasiso :
Ukuziqhelelanisa nesiko: Lokhu kungenye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu uCoco Chanel azishilo eselulekweni sakhe ngobuhle: “Ubuhle buqala lapho unquma ukuba nguwe.”
Ungashintshi izimfanelo zakho ezinhle futhi ungangenisi ubuzenzisi ebuntwini bakho, ngoba ukuzenzela kanye nobuntu bemvelo kungena ezinhliziyweni zawo wonke umuntu futhi kubenze bazizwe bekhululekile futhi bajabulele ukuba khona kwakho.

Ubuhle:

Ukunaka ukubukeka kwakho nokunakekela ubuhle bakho kubaluleke kakhulu.Ukubukeka okuvamile kunikeza umbono obalulekile wasekuqaleni kanye nombono mayelana nobuntu bakho bubonke.

Ubuhle bangaphandle bubaluleke kakhulu, kodwa akusiyo yonke into. Ubuhle akubona kuphela into esiyibonayo, kodwa buhlobene nobuhle bakho bangaphakathi, obusuka ekwanelisekeni kwakho, ukuzethemba kuwe, kanye nezinga lesiko nobuhlakani bakho. .

Gwema ukuqamba amanga:

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 Kufana nokusula yonke imininingwane emihle yomuntu mhlampe ubone intombi yakho iqamba amanga wacabanga ukuthi inenhlanhla ukudlula amadoda kodwa empeleni inenhlanhla ngaphandle kuphela ngakho ungazami ukuheha abantu ngale ndlela. lokuzenzisa noma ukuqamba amanga, ngoba amehlo angaqambi amanga akhipha ubuhle nokukhanga okungenakuvinjelwa.

Ubufazi

Ngokuvamile igama elithi ubufazi liwela emicabangweni yethu esilingweni futhi sizama ukukhombisa isici socansi kowesifazane kuphela futhi lokhu kungenye yamaphutha anzima kakhulu esingawenza ngoba ubufazi abukho ngesilingo futhi abuhehi muntu ngaphandle kwenhloso ethile. . Kanye nesizotha ekusebenzelaneni, iphimbo elipholile lezwi namahloni nobuntu obuqinile ngesikhathi esifanayo.

hlela ngu

URyan Sheikh Mohammed