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Uyabazi ubuntu kazibuthe? Yiziphi izici eziwuhlukanisayo?
Uke wezwa ngobuntu kazibuthe? Uyini lo mlingiswa futhi ufike kanjani lapho?
izici zobuntu kazibuthe
Lezi ezinye zezimfanelo ezitholiwe othi uma unazo futhi uzenze ingxenye yohlelo lwakho lwempilo, uzofana nomazibuthe kuwo wonke umuntu oseduze kwakho:
- Gcina ukumamatheka okukhanyayo (kuyisango lakho lokuphula umgoqo weqhwa nalabo abaseduze kwakho)
- Kufanele ube nezwi lokudumisa eliqotho (eliphelele kodwa elingenabuzenzisi)
- Suka engxabanweni (ukuphikisana kuyindlela yenkani yomunye umuntu)
- Phatha abanye ngendlela ongathanda bakuphathe ngayo.
- Yenza izaba kwabanye (hlala ubanikeze izaba futhi uqhelelane neziyalo).
- Ungathukutheli noma ngabe yisiphi isizathu (intukuthelo isuka kwasathane)
- Yenza uthando (nikeza labo abaseduze kwakho izipho, ngisho noma kuyinto encane kakhulu, njengoba isipho sinomphumela omangalisayo wemilingo kwabanye)
- Funda ukulalela (Abanye bathanda ukuzwakala njalo)
- Cabanga ngobumnandi obufanayo (hlala usakaza ithemba nethemba futhi uqhelelane nokungabi nathemba)
- Ukuthobeka nakho konke (imvelo yomuntu ibilokhu imelene nabazidlayo nabazidlayo)
- Funda ukuthethelela njalo
- Ungabi omunye walabo abaningi kakhulu ukunikeza iseluleko
- Funda ukungabagxeki abanye (inkulumo iyaphela futhi umphumela wayo uhlala engqondweni engenalutho)
- Ungahleki kakhulu lapho ungakudingi (ukuhleka kwesinye isikhathi kuphelelwa isithunzi)
- Funda ukuba mnene nokubekezela (lezi izimfanelo ezimbili ezithandwa uNkulunkulu)
Ngalezi zimfanelo, uwubuntu obuthandekayo obukhanga labo abamzungezile futhi kwenze wonke umuntu amlinde ukuba eze, abe naye, futhi asondele kuye.