Uma uthola lezi zimfanelo kumngane, zigcine njengengcebo eyigugu

Kuningi lamathiphu esikunikeza wona mayelana nenjabulo kanye nendlela yokuba nombono oqondile futhi ulahle i-negativity..... iwukuba ukhulume nabantu abaqondile abazokweseka kuzo zonke izici zokuphila kwakho, banekhono eliphezulu lokuthumela okukhulu. ukuthunyelwa kwamandla amahle ngisho noma amazwi abo emancane futhi Ngakho-ke, ukuba khona kwabo kuthinta kahle impilo yakho ngaphandle kokuzizwa kwakho, futhi ukuhlukanisa ukuthi ubani ongumuntu omuhle ngempela, sikunikeza izimfanelo ezivelele kakhulu ezikhona kubo:

1- Ukuba nethemba njalo nokuba nethemba, njengoba ubathola ezikhathini ezinzima kakhulu, bagcina lesi sici bona kanye nabanye.
2- Ukucaca kanye nokulula ekukhulumeni, njengoba ubathola bevame ukusebenzisa izinkulumo ezicacile, ezilula ukuze bonke abantu baziqonde ngaphandle kokukhetha.
3- Bathanda bonke abantu futhi bathatha inzondo, inzondo nomona njengezono ezingenakuthethelelwa, ngakho ababambezeli muntu, abazondi muntu, futhi abamoneli muntu.
4- Uthola induduzo, ukuthula nokuthula ekuziphatheni nasekuziphatheni kwabo.
5- Abantu abaningi bayabathanda futhi bayathandwa lapho beya khona.

6- Basiza abantu mahhala futhi bayithathe njengendaba ewela emahlombe abo.
7- Uthola ukumamatheka nokujabula ebusweni babo ngisho nangezikhathi zokucindezeleka.
8- Banesitayela esikhethekile nesikhangayo enkulumweni yabo nabanye.
9- Baheha abantu ngendlela ababaphatha ngayo, egcwele uthando, isimilo, nokuphana.
10- Bavame ukwenza umsebenzi wokusiza abantulayo noma wokusiza abantu ngaso sonke isikhathi ngaphandle kokutshela abanye ngakho.

11- Bafunda futhi bafunde ngesikhathi sabo sokuphumula ukuze bakhulise ulwazi lwabo nokuzazi.
12- Bakhathalele abangani babo, izihlobo kanye nemindeni yabo ngangokunokwenzeka, ngakho uthola abasondelene nabo besondelana nabo.
13- Awutholi kubo okuyize nokuzikhukhumeza, kodwa ubona ukuzethemba nokuthobeka kubonakaliswa ekuziphatheni kwabo.
14- Bakhuthaza abanye ukuthi baphishekele imigomo yabo yokuphila futhi babasize ukuba benze kanjalo.