Ukuthula komyeni wakho kuyakukhathaza nantsi indlela yomlingo yokujongana nendoda ethuleyo

Umfazi ukhathazeke kakhulu kukuthula kwendoda ayithandayo, ngakumbi ukuba ngumyeni wakhe, kwaye uxhalabile kwaye uyoyika, ngoko uvakalelwa kukuba le ndoda ayisamthandi, kwaye uqala ukuphindaphinda malunga nesizathu sokutshintsha kwakhe. Impatho yakhe, kwaye sisizathu sini esabangela ukuba amthiye aze amphathe ngobukhohlakali nokumxabanisa, into ongayaziyo kukuba indoda ngendalo iyathanda ukuthula, njengoko ingenabuchule ekuvezeni into eyiyo. eqhubeka ngaphakathi kuye, kodwa ngobukrelekrele bakho nobufazi obunomtsalane, kukho iindlela eziya kukwenza ukuba umqonde kwaye ube nentliziyo yakhe:

Ekuqaleni, nkosazana, kufuneka uyazi ukuba indoda inesimo nendlela yokucinga eyahlukileyo ngokupheleleyo kunawe, kwaye uzame ukuyamkela kwaye ulungelelanise, njengoko ingakwazi ukwenza izinto ezimbini okanye ukucinga izinto ezimbini ezahlukeneyo. Kwangelo xesha, ungathethi naye ngelixa exakekile, soze akuve.

Zama ukwabelana naye ngeengxaki zakho, kwaye ubuze uluvo lwakhe kwimiba ethile ekukhathazayo, kodwa qiniseka ukuba ungamtshonisa kwiingxaki zakho ukuze angakruquki kuwe, kwaye ngaloo ndlela uya kuziva ukubaluleka kwakhe kunye nendawo enkulu kuyo. ubomi bakho, kwaye uhlale ulumke ekukhetheni ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuthetha naye.

Mkhuthaze umyeni wakho ukuba akhuphe okungaphakathi kuye, kwaye ngamaxesha onke ubonise umbulelo nothando lwakho kuyo yonke into ayithethayo kuwe, kwaye uqaphele ukuba ungahlangani nomyeni wakho ngokuthula ukuze indlu yakho ingajiki ibe yindlu ethule. namakhonkco onxibelelwano phakathi kwenu anqunyulwe.

Thetha naye ngezinto ezinomdla kuye, fumana izinto azithandayo kwaye uzilandele ukuze ukwazi ukuthetha naye ngezinto azithandayo, ukuze wenze into efanayo phakathi kwenu ukuze umkhuthaze ukuba athethe nawe.

Yeka ukuzama ukumtshintsha kwaye umnyanzelise ukuba aveze iimvakalelo zakhe kuwe, kwaye uphinda igama elithi "thetha nam" kuba le ndlela ichanekileyo iya kubonisa kakubi kuye kunye nawe kwaye iya kumgcina umyeni wakho kude nawe ngakumbi, wenze ngobulumko, ngobulumko nangomonde de ufumana into oyifunayo.

Qinisekisa ukuba ukhetha izihloko ezinomdla nezimnandi kunye neencoko kwaye uhlekise, unokuphakamisa oko kuvusa umdla wakhe kunye nomdla ukuze azive ukuba ukuthetha nawe kunomdla, kumnandi kwaye kukhululekile.

Yamkele yonke into ethethwa yindoda nangendlela ebona kufanelekile ngayo, abanye abayeni bavakalisa izipho, yaye abanye bayayilungisa okanye bayitshintshe indlu, qiniseka ukuba zonke ezi ndlela zizinto nje zokubonisa uthando lwayo kuwe. ungayali.